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Family Lines Newsletter, January 12, 2003
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**A Time For Prayerfulness**
David Chadwell
 
The times are evil.  Nothing new!  They were evil in the first century (Ephesians 5:15-17).  Most of us older adults are accustomed to "evil days" characterizing people "over there."  That often meant countries who recognized no god or honored a strange god.  "Evil days" occurred in places desperately needing missionaries.  We needed to send them so their "evil days" could end.
 
No longer are "evil days" over there.  They are here.  A man or woman chooses a spouse on the basis of passion, or looks, or money.  Little or no consideration is given to godliness.  Husbands and wives war against each other as if God did not exist.  Marriages are devastated by unimaginable expressions of faithlessness.  Children are great as infants, tolerated prior to adolescence, and a major frustration as teens.  "True friends" indulge with us in the pursuit of passions.  We trust them to enjoy and keep quiet about it.  Life's goals are material--possess, buy, acquire!  Security is monetary with a focus on this world and life.  "What is it worth?  Can I indulge myself with it?  Can I retire on it?"
 
Our great theological issues center on worship forms, not lifestyles.  Ironically, the epistles contain little information about worship forms, but heavily emphasize lifestyles.  Too many have more confidence in church membership and attendance than in God's incredible accomplishments in Jesus' death.  In the church, spiritual priorities are more likely to rest on our preferences than God's will.  For many, "restoration" is more concerned about American priorities in the 1900's than Jesus and His first century priorities.
 
The result?  People's lives descend at a quickening rate into the chasm of despair.  "What's wrong?  I don't understand!  Fix it!  Make my life happy, my family sound, my spouse loving, or my child kind."  In the almost forty-one years that I have worked with the church full time, the anguish is constantly louder and louder.
 
So we quietly teach, guide, and increase awareness of godly (and ungodly) decisions and  focuses.   We try to "turn on the light" that will increase understanding of God's light to the world -- Jesus.  But even with what I do, what Brad does, what the elders do, and what many of you do, we get further and further behind.
 
If ever there was a time to pray, it is now.  We desperately need godly men and women.  Pray!  We desperately need Christians who love God more than themselves.  Pray!  We desperately need Christians who learn from God to love people.  Pray!  We desperately need to learn how to let God be God.  Pray!  Consequences must not destroy us.  Pray!
 
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**Teacher Needed**
Do you enjoy teaching "little ones?" We need an additional teacher (for age three) to take a week of rotation during Children's Worship. Call Nancy Dockery at 648-8060 if you can help.
 
**LTC Announcement**
LTC Puppets and Drama will meet this Sunday (upstairs) at 4:00 p.m.
 
**Ladyback Basketball**
We are traveling January 16th to a Southeast Conference game in Fayetteville (Florida vs. Arkansas). Details and a sign-up sheet are in the foyer.
 
** 60+ Potluck **
A potluck is planned for January 18th. Come and help us start a new year with a good turnout.
 
**Homebound Ministry**
Remember to encourage one of our shut-in members by a visit, a phone call, or a card.
* Frances Gilley, Methodist Nursing Home, 1915 South 74th, Fort Smith, AR 72903, Phone: 782-2950.
* Waymon Griffin, Methodist Nursing Home, 1915 South 74th, #26D, Fort Smith, AR 72903.
* Bertha Glover, c/o Pink Bud Nursing Home, Box 2000, Greenwood, AR 72936.
 
**Peak of the Week is Back!**
"Peak of the Week" has returned. Come and join us Wednesday evenings at 7:00 p.m. in the FLC.
 
**For All Ladies -- Married or Single**
 What do you know about the women mentioned in Titus 2?
Come join us for the Ladies' Retreat, January 24 and 25.
Our speakers will include: Martha Walker, Joyce Chadwell, Jane Fisher, Lenora Word, Jane Smith and Vicki Hardin
There will also be a question/ answer session, and we have lots of fun planned, too!
Sign-up sheet and maps at Library window.
"Teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live ... to teach what is good ... they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God."  Titus 2:3-5
 
**David's Sermons**
Sunday Morning: The Tension Factor
One of our elders , Joe Pistole, will extend the invitation.
Sunday Evening: Jesus' Cross: Our Crisis
 
**GOT WORK?**
Let us help!
Mexico Mission
Team Servant Day!
Saturday, February 1, 2003
You make a donation - we do the work!
Wide variety of skills available!
Teen and adult workers!
 
* Painting
* Cleaning
* Baby sitting
* Computer skills
* Yard work
* Wash and wax cars
* Baking
* Simple carpentry work
* Singing
 
Contact Tom or Roxie Benincosa by Thursday January 30th
Home phone 996-1675
Roxie's work 484-5740 Ext. 222
Roxie's cell 461-6452
Email:  trbennies@aol.com or roxie_benincosa@beall-cpa.com
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
January 6
Colleen Shirley
 
January 13
Reynda Allen
Florence Cotner
 
January 15
Cathy Breedlove
Sandra Pearson
 
January 16
Jay Arnold
Arista Lindgren
 
January 17
Ollie Amos
 
January 18
Peggy Brazelton
Shirley Walker
 
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**Remember In Prayer**
Paul Tucker is in Sparks Hospital, room 433.
Nadine Hawkins has a severe case of shingles and may be confined at home for a while.
John Hawkins has experienced some heart-related problems and is wearing a heart monitor for 30 days.
Paul Quenin is scheduled for surgery January 17th.
Wyatt Lowry, son of Erik and Amy, had outpatient abdominal ultrasound and upper GI on Tuesday.
Louise Cline, Helen Branum's sister was taken to ER Sunday and is now home.
Charles Moss, brother of Bill Moss, is in St. Edward Hospital with pneumonia and congestive heart problems.
Louise Howard is scheduled for knee surgery January 9th.
Betty Porter fell and broke her foot. She is wearing a cast for about four weeks.
Prayer has been requested for David Barnett of Spiro, who has cancer.
Continue to pray for Anita Maxwell, Erma Beshears, Sandy Berger, Virgil Kirchner, Kathy Bauer, Vicki Varvel, and Sandy Thurman.
 
**Prayers for Mission Work & Travel**
John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley returned to France this week.
Jerry Canfield leaves for Nigeria at the end of the month.
Thomas & Kindy Kweekul are going to Thailand.
Deborah Wilson is going to visit with our missionaries in Thailand.
Jim Wilson will visit in Thailand and travel on to work in Ethiopia.
 
**Bereaved**
Linzel and Joyce Hutson, former members at West-Ark, have each lost a brother recently. Holman (Buck) Hutson lived in Jonesboro, AR, and Charles Snyder lived in Naples, FL.  If you would like to send cards, Joyce and Linzel's address is 2608 Teresa Drive, Newport, AR 72112.
 
**Notes of Thanks**
We want to thank you for the cards, food, visits, and prayers during my husband's and father's illness and eventual passing. It is comforting to know how much people care.
 In Christian love,
 Betty & Ronnie Ransom
 
Dear West-Ark Church of Christ,
Thank you so much for the red silk carnations and white forget-me-nots that you sent for Ruth's funeral service. Ruth had been unable to attend church for a while, and so your thoughtfulness at this time is especially appreciated.
 Sincerely
 The Larry Edwards Family
 
To my Church Family,
I want to thank everyone for the many acts of kindness during the recent loss of Robbie.  My special thanks  to Dale Brown, Roy Dunavin and Brad Pistole for a very special service, the ladies that prepared and served the meal, the flowers, cards, visits, and especially your prayers were deeply appreciated.
 In Christian love,
 Cecil Knight
 Nieces and Nephews
 
Dear West-Ark,
Thank you for the calls, cards and prayers in my time of sickness.
 In Christian love,
 Aline Phillips
 
I want to express my appreciation to all who assisted me during my medical emergency Sunday morning.
 Louise Cline
 
**Congratulations**
... to Britney Beard who recently graduated from Texas A & M with a BS in Animal Science!
 
**New Van Fund Drive**
Many ministries have the need of reliable transportation. We would like to purchase another van to be utilized by our various ministries. Donations may be given to any staff member, elder, or BMT member.
 
** "His Needs, Her Needs" **
A new class is now forming!
Call Mat Griffin (452-1472) or Paul Shirley (632-4458) to register.
   Strengthen Weak Marriages
   Fine Tune Good Marriages 
   Rebuild Broken Marriages
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
"The Blessed Life"
One of my friends has a saying. I think I should share it with you. We all seem to be in the habit of walking past other people and saying, "How are you?" And it seems everyone's typical response is always, "Fine. How are you?" To which we always reply "Fine."
 
However, when my friend is approached with the question "How are you?", he always responds the same way: "I'm too blessed to be distressed." Isn't that a great attitude for life? He realizes that he's far too blessed to be distressed about the "little distractions" that come our way.
 
This past Tuesday night, 12 of our teens and my daughter, Autumn, all piled into a van about 5:30 p.m. We went to pick up Aubrey Walden, 97 years young, to take him out to eat supper. We had such a great time!
 
Aubrey is a blessing to us. He helps us put life in perspective. He helps us remember that our world has not always been like it is today. He is a gift to us and we enjoy our time with him. He helps us all realize that "we are too blessed to be distressed."
 
After our time with Aubrey, we went back to the building for Teen Bible Study. We were supposed to meet from 7-8 p.m. but we ended up staying til 9:30 p.m. because the teens were hungry for more.
 
I want to invite any teen or parent to join us for supper and Bible Study each Tuesday night. We meet for supper at 5:30 and we have Bible study from 7 until we finish. Come join us and realize how blessed you are and how you need to return those blessings to others.
 
We will be leaving the annex at 4 p.m. this Sunday afternoon to go to Rogers, AR for Sunday Night Live. Supper will be provided at no cost to you and we will return by 9:30 p.m.
 
**Nursery Schedule**
 
Infants
Trish Carson
Jane  Dunavin
Morgan Dunavin
 
Toddlers
Jon Huff
Liz Huff
 
P.M. Nursery
Marquetta Walker
Molly Walker
 
**Schedule of Services**
Sunday Worship (10:30)................664
Sunday Classes (9:30) ................. 445
Sunday Evening (6:00)...................305
The Way (4:00) ................................51
Spanish.............................................26
Wednesday Worship (7:00)............173
Sunday Contribution ................$20,987
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westarkchurchofchrist.org
 
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