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Family Lines Newsletter, January 26, 2003
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**TO FIND STRENGTH, REFINE FOCUS**
By David Chadwell
 
What New Testament people's ability to trust God provide you strength?  Do they include these people?  Zacharius and Elizabeth, the elderly parents who gave life to John who baptized?  Wonder if they were alive when their only son was executed?  Mary, Jesus' mother, who conceived him prior to marriage?  Her husband, and the son she conceived, died before she did.  John, the man Jesus said was the greatest person ever born (Matthew 11:11)?  He was beheaded.  Jesus, God's son, the Messiah, the Christ?  He was crucified.  Peter, the apostles' leader?  He was crucified upside down.  Paul, Christ's apostle to non-Jewish people?  He was beheaded.
 
Were Zacharius, Elizabeth, Mary, John, Jesus, Peter, Paul, or others like them weak people?  No!  They lived their lives in surrender to God's will with confidence in God's purposes.  If those purposes included having a child when you were elderly, so be it.  Elizabeth found it embarrassing, but so be it.
 
If God's purposes included conceiving a child as a virgin (which few believed), so be it.  Mary responded, "Behold, the female slave of the Lord ..." (Luke 1:38).
 
If God's purposes included his execution, so be it.  John understood the risk he took before he declared the condemnation that eventually resulted in his execution.
 
If God' purposes included crucifixion, so be it.  It was not what Jesus wanted, but he still surrendered to "Your will be done" (Matthew 26:39).
 
If God's purposes included death, so be it.  Tradition says Peter requested an upside down crucifixion because he felt unworthy to die as Jesus did.  Paul said, "I will continue to be poured out like God's drink offering ..." (2 Timothy 4:6).
 
Weak in faith?  No, strong in faith!  Define strength.  They were strong enough to give children to God's purpose, strong enough to die by execution.  How did they measure faith's strength?  How did they measure God's blessings?  By homes, careers, jobs, prosperity, or the "good life" they lived?  No.  They measured God's blessings by their usefulness to God's purposes.  The highest blessing God granted them in physical life was using them to accomplish His purposes.
 
Christian men or women who measure God's blessings primarily by the material, primarily by the physical, primarily by living standards, primarily by health, primarily by what happens in the lives of loved ones lean on a sword with its point directed toward their heart.  God's priority blessings are not material or physical.  Now God's priority blessings are forgiveness, redemption, atonement, holiness, purity, and spiritual life.  God's priority blessing after physical existence is eternal existence with Him.
 
"If we have hoped in Christ in this life only, we are of all men most to be pitied" (1 Corinthians 15:19).
 
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**From Baby Steps to Giant Leaps**
By David Boozer
 
In the movie "What About Bob?" Bob (Bill Murray) is advised by his psychiatrist to take baby steps toward improvement.  This is one philosophy that we have taken at the Way, especially regarding the kids.  Last Friday and Saturday, however, Donna Lindgren and Michelle Boozer abandoned our approach of taking baby steps; they took a giant leap.  Friday afternoon, they loaded a rented van with pillows, sleeping bags and nine wound-up kids and headed three hours away to Camp Wyldewood's youth retreat in Searcy.  This trip was a giant leap because four of the nine kids were from the Way.  This experience was completely new to them.  Hanging out in the woods around a campfire with people passionately talking about Jesus Christ is not something inner city kids do often.  As they found out, that passion is like this stomach virus going around, EXTREMELY CONTAGIOUS!
 
This is just the beginning for these kids. Another retreat is planned for April.  Also, each one now wants to attend Camp Wyldewood's summer camp.  Seven days of GIANT LEAPS forward for kids who are often more used to going backwards. For them to go, however, they will need mature Christians to take a pretty giant step and sponsor them - to pay their way. Think about it and contact Donna or Michelle.  Help these kids take one more giant leap forward in this exciting process we call discipleship!
 
**Borrowing & Returning TV's and VCR's**
On the 1st floor, TV's and VCR's are stored in the Library.  All teachers, please return audio-visual equipment to the Library after you use it. 
 
**Teachers Needed**
These positions need to be filled as soon as possible. Please call Robin Pratt-Webber at 783-8728 if you can help.
Kindergarten teacher for Wednesday  night.  This is for a 6- month period beginning in March and ending in August.
Two teachers are needed for the three year old class on Sunday morning.
 
**New Wednesday Night Class**
Joe Pistole is beginning a discussion class in room 200 on Max Lucado's book, "In The Grip of Grace." Class members are asked to supply their own copy of the book.  
 
**Guyana Mission Team, 2003**
The Lord needs more workers for this trip.
Can you serve in Guyana this Summer, June 7-15?
 
**On Sunday, January 26**
our afternoon assembly will be at 3:30 p.m. 
No fellowship or meal is planned.
Our  4th Sunday evening fellowship will resume in February.
 
**David's Sermons**
Sunday Morning: "Whose Perspective? Yours or God's?"
Sunday Afternoon: Victory In Jesus
 
**GOT WORK?**
Let us help!
Mexico Mission Team Servant Day!
Saturday, February 1, 2003
You make a donation - we do the work!
Wide variety of skills available!
Teen and adult workers!
 
Painting
Cleaning
Baby sitting
Computer skills
Yard work
Wash and wax cars
Baking
Simple carpentry work
Singing
 
Contact Tom or Roxie Benincosa by Thursday January 30th
Home phone 996-1675
Roxie's work 484-5740 Ext. 222
Roxie's cell 461-6452
Email:  trbennies@aol.com or roxie_benincosa@beall-cpa.com
 
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**Say A Prayer For**
 
* Iris Rios (sister of Mickey Mendez) is in Sparks Hospital, room 412.
* Virgil Kirchner is continuing chemotherapy treatments.
* Louise Howard had the staples from her knee replacement surgery removed Wednesday and is doing well.
* Gail Stevens (a friend of Donna Beneux's) is in ICU at St. Edward Hospital.
* Continue to pray for Anita Maxwell, Erma Beshears, Sandy Berger, Kathy Bauer, Vicki Varvel, Sandy Thurman, and Nadine Hawkins.
 
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended to Bill Moss in the death of his brother, Charles.  Funeral services were Monday in Fort Smith.
 
**Mission Work & Travel**
John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley are in France.
Jerry Canfield is traveling to Nigeria at the end of January.
Thomas & Kindy Kweekul are in Thailand.
Chris & Heather Carroll are in Thailand; Deborah Wilson is visiting them; Jim Wilson is in Ethiopia.
 
**Those in Military Service**
Alan Roper is expected to leave Ft. Bragg for Iraq this week.  Larry and Donna Roper appreciate your prayers for Alan and his wife, Kimber.
 
**New Arrival**
Congratulations to Ken and Beth Frederick on the birth of a daughter, Jenna Danelle, born on January 20th.  Jenna weighed 7 lbs., 7 ozs.
 
**Phone Number**
Naomi McLinden Green's phone number is 471-5874.
 
**Note of Thanks**
Words cannot express our thanks for your cards, visits and the many prayers during Paul's and my very critical hospital stay. They kept us encouraged. Hopefully, our home recovery will be short, and we can be at worship again.
In Christian love,
Paul & Marlene Tucker
 
**Lady Razorback Trip Planned**
We are planning to travel to Fayetteville and watch the Lady Razorbacks play Tennessee on January 30th.  All 60+, widows, and widowers are invited. An information sheet and sign-up list is posted outside room 100.
 
**Widows/Widowers**
Widows and widowers will be hosted by the Singles group at noon on Saturday, February 1st in the Family Life Center.
 
**Car Clinic**
Car Clinic will be Saturday, February 1st at the Annex, 8:00 to 11:00 a.m. -- weather permitting.
 
**Ladies' Class Luncheon**
The Wednesday morning ladies' Bible class will have a potluck luncheon following class on January 29th.
 
**Singles Potluck**
The singles are having a potluck dinner on Friday, January 24, at 6:00 p.m. in the home of Janelle Graves, 105 Nellie, Arkoma, OK. Phone numbers are (918) 626-3951 or (479) 414-4871.
 
**Typewriter Needed**
If you would like to donate a good, electric typewriter (self-correcting would be great!) to the Hispanic Ministry, please call Lynn Dickey. Oscar Nolasco needs one for his work.
 
**Found in the Parking Lot**
A package containing various sheets of plate glass was turned in to the office last week. It was left by a car in the parking lot.  If it is yours or if you have information on it, please call the office.
 
**Library Donations**
Debbie Treat has donated three books to the Library in memory of her father, Frank Flippin, Jr.
"A Love Worth Giving" by Max Lucado
"Shaped by God" by Max Lucado
"Bringing Up Boys" by James Dobson
 
**River Valley Christian School**
RVCS is planning its Spring Banquet for Tuesday, February 25th in the Fort Smith Convention Center.  Art Linkletter is the keynote speaker.  If you are interested in attending, information is posted in the foyer.
 
**Happy Birthday**
January 26
Jake Jackson
 
January 27
Jeana Belote
Paul Beneux
Harvey George
Josephine Johnson
Larry Todd
 
January 28
Charles Dicks
Gene Monk
Barney Puckett
 
January 29
Frances Gilley
 
January 30
Harold Davis
Abbey Jenkins
 
January 31
Phillip Burns
 
February 1
Brandon Combs
Carolyn Harrell
Ashley Haworth
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
"The Certainty of Life?"
This past Tuesday I received a call from a minister in Florida. He called to remind me of a young man, about 30 years of age, whom I had recently visited in a Fort Smith hospital. You see, about 5 months ago, he was in ICU recovering from brain surgery.
 
Since this man's mother lived in Florida and could not be here with her son, he felt like it would be a good idea for someone in the church to visit him. Ironically, since I had been through some very similar things just a few years ago, it turned out to be a great idea for me to go visit him.
 
I met the young man, his sister and her husband. I found out that their parents had divorced several years ago and they rarely got to see their mother any more. She is a member of the church, and as any good mother would be, she was concerned for the spiritual condition of her children.
 
I had a good conversation with her children that day. I was able to share with them the fact that I had been through many of the same things they would soon go through. I let them know that the church would be there to help them whenever they needed us.
 
Now scroll forward about 5 months to this past week. ... I received a call from the minister in Florida to let me know that the father of these children was in a Fort Smith hospital in ICU about to die. He also informed me that this man's son, the young man I had visited with just months ago, had been killed that very morning in a car accident in Fort Smith.
 
Roy and I went to the hospital to visit the sister. Imagine the stress of knowing you have just lost your brother and knowing that your father will die any moment.
 
Isn't life interesting? My friend survived a brain tumor only to die months later in a tragic accident. The only certainty we have in this life is that Life Is Uncertain. I hope you are making plans in this life for the life that is to come. Eternity is one of the only things we can be sure of.
 
This temporary life on earth is full of uncertainties. What kind of plans are you making right now? Do they involve things that are temporal or eternal? Make the CERTAIN choice. Choose God and choose him TODAY!
 
**Nursery Workers**
Infants: Berniece Rogers, Sharon Faries, Joann Davenport
Toddlers: Sue George, Kristin Smith
Evening: Marjorie Blake, Bennie Hedrick
 
**Schedule of Services**
 
Sunday Worship (10:30)................637
Sunday Classes (9:30) ................. 473
Sunday Evening (6:00)...................298
Wednesday Worship (7:00).............311
The Way (4:00) ................................41
Spanish Morning Worship................13
Spanish Evening Worship (6:30)......16
Sunday Contribution ................$17,203
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westarkchurchofchrist.org
 
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