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Family Lines Newsletter, November 23, 2003
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**A Journey, Not A Destination**
By David Chadwell
 
In a country in West Africa, Joyce and I were second generation missionaries.  [Please understand I fully realize that mission efforts in different cultures and societies are unique -- we must be cautious when we are tempted to form universal mission principles from single culture experiences.]  We really wanted to do mission work!
 
I was on campaign to that area about a year prior to our move.  Four missionary families had all details arranged for the thirteen campaigners to visit for three weeks.  Villages received us enthusiastically!  Excited crowds listened and discussed for hours!  Many were baptized!  Evening meetings with missionary families were enthusiastic events! Four families and thirteen visitors are a big crowd in any home!
 
Before we moved, I envisioned lots of evangelistic activity.  About thirty congregations existed when we arrived.  Shortly there were fifty.  In less than two years, there were eighty.  At "leave time," there were one hundred ten known congregations.  They sprang up spontaneously through neighbor, family, and friendship evangelism.
 
Never were there more than six missionary families (and that rarely!). Some did not have one convert who read or understood worship.  Few Bibles, no printed lessons, and no study aids existed.  Virtually every congregation was composed of spiritual infants. Immediately the overwhelming need was stabilization of infant converts and congregations.  How do a maximum of six missionary men with no preacher training school stabilize fifty-plus congregations?  Baptisms were easy, but nurturing spiritual infants was demanding!  To allow Christians and congregations to die is failure, not success.  If the mortality rate almost equals the birth rate, little is accomplished!
 
Spiritual maturity is a journey, not a destination!  From believing in Jesus to a determination to repent is a journey.  From both to the desire to enter a covenant relationship with God through baptism is a journey.  Faith, repentance, and baptism merely produce a spiritual infant.  At that point the journey truly begins!  
 
The path to spiritual maturity is marked by "Jesus-guided" changes in behavior. Victory is not achieved by sitting down on baptism's banks, but by walking the path of godly living 24/7.  A Christian man or woman never stops walking that path!
 
Did you view your baptism as a destination, or beginning a journey?  Did you sit down on baptism's banks, or did you start walking the path of godly living?  Is your spiritual goal maturity in Christ, or do you plan always to be a spiritual infant?
 
Baptizing is simple! Nurturing is demanding!  Sitting is easy!  Following a rock-filled path is hard!  Do not sit down!  Help others!  Convert, but encourage believers to live godly lives!
 
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**Spotlight on VBS**
By Christy Hesslen
 
Contacts: Carolyn Harrell & Dena Jenkins
 
Vacation Bible School at West-Ark is a huge ministry in its own right. It usually takes place for 4 to 5 days in July and touches many, many lives. Dena Jenkins and Carolyn Harrell are masters at the choreographing of this event. This year VBS had an entirely new format.  The FLC was set up as a giant Marketplace.  It was an enormous undertaking, but well worth everyone's efforts. Dena states, "This multi-modality learning concept appeared to have been received very well both by the children and all of the volunteers. Most importantly, the children seemed to have learned even more about Jesus - without even knowing they were learning!"
 
The challenges to put on a VBS of such great magnitude are many. We are blessed with MANY volunteers. There is a place for everyone to participate in VBS ~ from food preparation, to costume sewing, to backdrop painting, to researching topics, teachers, bus drivers, etc. Dena and Carolyn stress that it is never too early to commit for VBS 2004, because often they are scrambling near the deadline to fill positions. The marketplace truly has a home for EVERYONE, so we also would love for more adults of ALL ages to become involved in VBS. One will find more in blessings from working with these precious little souls than one could ever imagine!
 
The obvious goal every year is to teach as many children as possible about our Lord and His love for them, while creating an experience for them that will last a lifetime. Many children come to our VBS as visitors and leave with newfound friends and an excitement for Jesus. We would like to explore even more ways in which to reach out to even more children in the community.  The children learn so much about Jesus: Who He is and Why He came. They also experience His love firsthand as they give to others and share by helping those in need by replenishing our food pantry during our can drive every year. What a wonderful way in which to form disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others! We thank you Carolyn, Dena, and all those who volunteer in VBS.
 
**Why Should I Be Thankful?**
By Derrick Jones
 
Giving thanks is right. As Albert Schweitzer said, ''We ought to make an effort to act on our first thoughts, and let our unspoken gratitude find expression. Then there will be more sunshine in the world, and more power to work for what is good.''  Jesus was a thankful person, especially in prayer. He said,'' Father, I thank Thee that Thou hast heard me'' (John 11:41). Why should we be thankful? We should always be thankful for the unspeakable gift (II Corinthians 9:15); freedom from sin (Romans 6:17-18, 22), and victory over death (I Corinthians 15:57).
 
As a member of this congregation there are a lot of things we should be thankful for. Lions for Christ started out great. God has blessed us with a lot of opportunities to bring His message to the lost. UA Fort Smith is a great ministry to encourage and pray for the students. The activities of Lions for Christ are busy and coming along. The Parents' Night Out was a great success; we had about 35 kids and a lot of pizza. Thanks to Larry Armstrong for his help. We really appreciate all the donations people have contributed to LFC.
 
Our upcoming event in December is the Christmas party for college students on December 5th at Larry and Laurie Armstrong's home. As we think about Thanksgiving, let us focus on the amazing things God is going to do for LFC and the blessings He has already given (Ephesians 3: 20-21).
 
**LTC Announcements**
There will be a mandatory Parents' Meeting, Sunday (11/23/03) at 5:15 p.m. in Room 100. The deadline for payment for the participants is November 30th.
 
Internet Group
We will meet Sunday (11/23/03) from 2-3 p.m. upstairs in the computer room.  See Blake Frost if you have questions.
 
Required Meeting
There will be a very important meeting for those involved in elementary chorus, elementary and secondary puppets, and elementary and secondary drama on Sunday, December 14 at 5:00 in room 100.  Parents need to attend as well as the students.  Practices begin in January, and we must get some details out of the way before then.  Please mark your calendars and make plans to be in attendance.  Questions?  Contact Rochelle Brown.
 
Children's Books
You need to start writing your book. Please turn them in to Glenda Lewis by January 4th. If you need help, contact Glenda at 783-2758.
 
Choral Group - 7-12 grade
November 23 & 30, No practice
 
**David's Sermons**
Morning: "God, It Hurts!"
Evening: It Is Worth It!
 
**Annual West-Ark Family Thanksgiving Day Dinner**
Thursday, November 27, 12 Noon in the FLC.
Bring a dessert and some sort of side dish such as:
* potatoes and gravy
* sweet potatoes
* any veggies
* salads, etc.
* bring games, too!
 
We need some volunteers to bring turkey or ham.  Rolls will be provided.
Call Sandy Berger if you have any questions at 785-1921.
 
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**Remember in Prayer**
* Maile McDonald and her family.
* Joan & Sam Jenkins (parents of Kerry) are going through a difficult time. Joan has begun daily radiation treatments which will last six weeks, and Sam is having knee surgery and a biopsy next week. The family appreciates your prayers.
* Jabin Huff (newborn son Jon & Liz)
* Mary Smith (mother of Trish Carson)
* Recovering from surgery: Robin Harper and Anna Holley.
 
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended to Karen Farris.  Karen's father, Edward Pittman King, was killed in a car accident on 11/13/03. Her mother, Peggy, was also injured and is recovering in the hospital.  Please remember the Farris and King families in your prayers.
 
Our love and sympathy is extended to Dennis Anderson in the death of his brother, Richard, after a long battle with cancer. Funeral services were Monday in Farmington.
 
We also express our love and sympathy to Philip Abuzeide in the death of his mother, Vera, on Monday night. Funeral services were in Richmond Heights, MO.
 
**Note of Thanks**
To all the kids at West-Ark,
Thank you for your sweet letters; they really made my day. I read them over and over. A special thanks for your pictures. I will cherish them forever. Keep praying for me and I will pray for each of you.
I love you,
Marie Lile
 
**Change of Address**
Steve, Cathy & Shelby Breedlove
2003 E. Hickory Drive
Greenwood, AR 72936
 
**No Classes Thanksgiving Eve**
We will not have Bible classes on Wednesday, November 26th. Everyone will assemble in the Auditorium for a time of singing and devotion at 7:00 p.m.
 
**Meet the Benjamin Family**
We will welcome Chris, Karen, Wyatt & Ethan Benjamin with a reception following our 5th Sunday (Evening) Family Meeting on November 30th. Refreshments will be provided.
 
**Newborn**
Congratulations to Greg and Robin Simpson on the birth of a daughter, Audra Ann, on November 18. Audra weighs 7 lbs., 13 ozs. and is 20 ¾ inches long.
 
**60+ November Event**
Brad Pistole and the teens will host a special dinner for our 60+ members on Saturday, November 22nd, from 5:30 to 7:00 p.m. We hope you'll make plans to attend this special night.
 
**Car Clinic will be 8 to 11a.m. at the Annex, Saturday, December 6.
 
**Chili Dinner**
Friends of Maile McDonald are hosting a Chili Dinner for Maile
Saturday, December 6th, 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. in the Family Life Center.
All proceeds (donations accepted) will go to Travis & Jeanie McDonald to help with their expenses.
The McDonalds take Maile once a week to the Children's Hospital in Little Rock for chemotherapy treatments.
For more information please call: Adriane Martin (479 739-0223) or Lisa Gregory (479 650-8939).
 
**Widows/Widowers**
The van will leave the Annex Saturday, December 6 at 11:30 a.m.
 for the home of Jack & Janice and a Christmas Tea & Gift Exchange. 
Bring a wrapped $5 gift (serious or fun--old or new). 
Don't miss this time of fun and fellowship. 
Call Bobbie Hughes, Mary Burkett or Janice Lowry if you need transportation to the Annex.
 
**Teachers Needed**
Robin Pratt Webber needs two teachers for 1st Grade - one for Sunday a.m. and one for Wednesday night.  Call Robin at 783-8728 if you can help.
 
**Handicap Parking**
Please reserve the first two handicap parking places by the FLC entrance for those who have wheel chairs.  It gives them much easier access to the building.  ~~Thanks
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
November 23
Nathan Allen
Layne Downs
Olivia Kleman
Brittany Layman
 
November 24
Emma Adams
Ben Dye
Nick Jackson
Christi Lyn Peters
 
November 25
Jennifer Davidson
Bobbye Ferrell
 
November 26
Janie Carpenter
 
November 27
Jane Dunavin
Sue George
Deborah Grier
Becca Risley
Steve Williams
 
November 29
Nicky Benincosa
Kay Cole
Marvin Hughes
 
November 30
Lyndon Blackman
Charlie Dye
 
December 1
Lynn Dickey
Carolyn Griffin
Savanah Logan
Robert Loudermilk
Jeff Tucker
 
December 2
Kathy Glidewell
Patrick Haworth
Adam Jenkins
Ralph Smith
Doyle Wright
 
December 3
Kyle Haworth
Tracy Risley
 
December 4
Azia Blasdel
Ashley Blasdel
Esther Gunn
 
December 6
Thomas Kweekul
Kevin Strong
Charles Wilson
 
**We will not publish a newsletter next week due to the Thanksgiving holiday.**
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
What Are You Thankful For? (Part 1)
In light of God's wonderful plan He has laid out for us, which contains laws and commands that are given to us for our own benefit, how does one fully understand or even try to describe grace? It seems impossible. It seems the only thing that can make sense to us is to simply figure out God's "perfect system" and follow it without exception. Being obedient to God's laws and God's plan will certainly free us from our sins and gain us eternal life. There should be no exceptions to this!
 
However, God does not always make sense, especially to our human minds. Grace certainly contributes to this confusion. Grace has been defined as "unmerited favor." Others describe it as "getting something you don't deserve." Certainly the thief on the cross received something he didn't deserve, and we have struggled with it and tried to "explain it away" ever since. Grace continues to confuse us as Christ accepted the woman at the well. He also accepted the woman caught in adultery, and he sent her accusers away one by one. There's no doubt about what Peter deserved. He openly and willfully denied Christ three times in public after promising not to do so. God then used him to deliver one of the most famous and powerful sermons of all time.
 
I don't understand Grace. It messes up "my system" of how I would like to use scripture. I would like to have a pinpoint answer to every single question and dilemma we face in life. I would like to silence every single critic and every single person that believes differently than me by pointing to one or two verses. After all, I like my beliefs and my arguments. I've spent many years perfecting them.
 
God's choice to shower down grace on a person, who in my opinion "does not deserve it," messes up my system. His decisions need to fit into my system or else my system won't work. And after all, my system is based on what He has told me in His word, so this should work.
 
So why does God choose to use this grace and why does He do it so often? Why can't He just leave things the way they are, and let us be judged according to our own merits? Why can't we simply take His word that He has given us as our guide and allow its truth to judge us solely and completely based on how successfully we obey its every command?  (To be continued...)
 
**Nursery Workers**
A.M. Infants: Berniece Rogers, Sharon Faries, Tracy Risley
A.M. Toddlers: Gary & Judi Green
Evening: Marjorie Blake, Christy Hesslen
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Missions Sunday (11/16/03)
Combined Assembly  714
Bible Classes   533
Sunday afternoon assembly  206
Small Groups (did not meet)
Wednesday P.M. 356
Contribution   $14,629
Children's Home   $304
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westarkchurchofchrist.org
 
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