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Family
Lines Newsletter, August 5,
2004
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**The Christian's Use of Painful Situations**
By
David Chadwell
"Therefore, since Christ has suffered in the flesh,
arm yourselves also with the same purpose, because he who has suffered in the
flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live the rest of the time in the flesh no
longer for the lusts of men, but for the will of God" (1 Peter 4:1,
2).
One of the greatest deceits in the American
social/cultural/political perspective: "God wants me to be happy." Of course,
"I" decide what will and will not make "me" happy.
* My feelings
define happiness [I feel sad, not happy!].
* I demand instant gratification
[This is not fun! I want fun now!].
* I want to be where culture says I
should be [Stop wasting yourself!].
* I want to satisfy greedy ambitions [If
I had ___ or did ___, I would be happy!].
* I become a selfish person who
places life's emphasis on "me" [Nothing is as important as my
happiness!].
[Please understand happiness is an extremely difficult, complex
discussion. This is a discussion of a general principle, not an unusual
situation.]
Consider one point. Begin by noting [and
confessing] our arrogance as a culture and a nation. What people are so
arrogant as to put in their constitution the right to
pursue happiness? [Have you wondered how much that perceived
right factors into personal expectations?] What
country dares to be so arrogant as to determine its political policies on this
basis: "Are you better off now than you were four years ago?" [We are to
determine what is best for a nation on the basis of subjective personal
desires?] Thus, if we do not have everything we want, an undefined someone else
is to blame.
God's goal is to move us in His direction.
Satan's goal is to move us further from God. In the beginning God provided
for our ultimate desires and needs. Near the beginning Satan deceived us
with promises of pleasure. Suffering was not part of God's
provisions. Satan's deception produced suffering, enormous loss, and
pain.
Even though pain was the consequence of deception,
our incredible God uses deception's consequences [pain and suffering] to guide
us back to Him. The greatest blessings in our past came through the
honesty of pain, not the deceptions of pleasure.
Our most valuable lessons learned from experience
are lessons we learned through pain. That does not mean we want to visit
those painful circumstances again. It means we learned life's choice
lessons from that pit of suffering. It means our pain and suffering can
become God's constructive tools.
The greatest blessings we have in life [mercy,
grace, forgiveness, redemption, purity] were produced by God through
suffering--Jesus' experiences in death. The greatest hopes we have in life
[physical death not being "the end" and the joys of a world of righteousness]
were produced by God through resurrection--God through Jesus is more powerful
than physical death.
The issue in suffering and pain is not, "How can I
be happy and endure this?" For the Christian, the issue in pain and
suffering is, "How can my pain be God's helpful tool?"
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**Life Group Information Event**
Sunday, August
8
4:30 p.m. in the FLC
Who's Invited?: Any and all members at
West-Ark who want to know more about the potential of LIFE Groups for building
up the church and reaching out to the lost. LIFE Group leaders, elders,
ministers, ministry leaders are encouraged to attend. If you have
questions about LIFE Groups, please come.
What is it about? Timothy Warden has
been a missionary in the Philippines for at least 13-15 years. He is a
friend of Larry Roper's and will be visiting Fort Smith this weekend. Timothy's
successful ministry has incorporated the use of small groups so that they now
have 30 active groups in their congregation. They have several Christians
that were introduced to the gospel through their LIFE groups. These groups
remain a part of their church growth and spiritual development.
This is a special opportunity to ask Timothy Warden questions and
see if his experience with mission in the Philippines might benefit us in our
mission to Western Arkansas.
**LTC Registration**
LTC registration is ongoing
in the foyer during the month of August. Coaches need to sign up for
events.
**Registration for Wednesday WINGS**
Time is
running out!! We need your signature NOW so that we can order you a
book. Sign-up sheet is on the counter in the Information Center in
foyer. Last date to be able to sign is Wednesday, August 11. You
will have to order/purchase your own book after the 11th. Class begins
September 8, 7:00 p.m. in room 211.
**Teachers Needed**
We need teachers for our
pre-school department. Please call Robin Pratt-Webber (648-9643) if you can
help.
**Report from Oscar Nolasco**
Dear
West-Ark,
During the week of VBS, I took 14 children every day, but the total
of Hispanic children was 21.
During the Community Outreach Day, I met 30 new
people. I gave them some literature. I made some Bible
studies.
This coming Sunday we will celebrate our "Iglesia de Cristo" second
anniversary. You are welcome to come.
Thank you for letting us participate in
those activities.
Oscar Nolasco
**VBS Clean Up**
After this week-end, we will be
storing everything from Vacation Bible School that has not been picked up.
Please get any items you loaned to the church for VBS. They are in the hallway
outside the Library.
**VBS Carpets Missing**
Two carpets loaned for
VBS are missing. If you took home a carpet, please check the underside for a
name. The missing carpets were labeled.
**Widows/Widowers**
We will be hosted by Bob
& Patti Null, Saturday, August 7. The van will leave the annex at
11:30. If you need transportation to the annex please call: Mary
(646-6079), Bobbie (674-5814) or Janice (474-8851)
**School Supplies Needed**
School is starting
soon and there are families that need help with school supplies. We have plenty
of pencils, but we could use any other school supplies. Please leave them in the
church foyer.
**Community Day Report**
West-Ark
Members:
Thank you so much for your donations of clothing, household items
and your labor of love in the Lord. Through you Christ was glorified on
Community Outreach Day. May goodness and mercy continue to follow you all the
days of your life is my prayer.
In Christian love,
Kathy
Rosalez
Last Saturday's Community Day of sharing was a big
success for West-Ark. More than 10 tons of furniture, clothing, and household
items were given away to needy families. The young people from Woodward,
OK, were a big help and a positive influence on those being served, and many
contacts were made for future follow-up and Bible studies. However, there are
other families that still have needs. There are 3 families that need a
table and chairs; 2 families are sleeping on the floor without even a mattress;
and one family needs a refrigerator. If you can help fill any of these needs,
please contact the church office or call me at 459-0168.
Jack
Lewis
**Sunday Morning**
"God Knows How"
2 Peter
2:1-10
Chris Benjamin, Speaker
**Sunday Evening**
Transformation Illustration:
Paul (Saul)
David Chadwell, Speaker
**Happy Birthday**
August 8
Wayne Bailey
August 10
David Pippin
Mary
Vampola
August 11
Michael Blasdel
Heather
Curtis
Mitch Harper
John Lankford
August 12
Lacy Jennings
Carlene
Payne
August 13
Kelvin Kleman
August 14
Janet Cathey
Martha Gooden
Ben
Huff
James Mason
Kaye Smith
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**In Our Thoughts & Prayers**
* Adam Jenkins
has had trouble keeping his food down again. Please continue to pray for Adam's
complete healing.
* Don Green is scheduled for out-patient surgery on
Monday.
* Donna Beneux's mother, Ruth Davis, is now under Hospice Care at
Methodist Nursing Home.
* Pete Mendez (son of Emilio and brother of Luis) is
in serious condition in Puerto Rico following a car accident.
* Beatrice
Neighbors, grandmother of Mitch Harper, has been moved to Health South
Rehab.
* Maile McDonald
* Judi Green
* Lear Mae Moody (mother of Sue
George)
**Dismissed from the Hospital**
John Richards
and Chuck Combs
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended
to the following families in their loss.
* Cami Stancil and her mother,
Beverly, in the death of Cami's father, Alvis Ingram, last Friday. Alvis is also
the son-in-law of Clayton and Ollie Amos. Funeral services were Monday at
Edwards Funeral Home. The Stancil Family recently moved. Their new address
is:
3021 Mt. Zion Road
Greenwood, AR 72936
Phone 996-8568.
*
Emilio and Luis Mendez in the death of Mirtha Mendez in a car accident in Puerto
Rico. Mirtha is the daughter-in-law of Emilio and sister-in-law of Luis.
*
Embry and Yates Families in the death of Iva Embry, sister-in-law to both Edith
Embry and Lorene Yates. Iva died Saturday in Missouri.
* Edith Embry in the
death of her brother, Ralph Marksberry, of Moab, Utah.
**Military Service**
Continue to remember Daniel
Kweekul, Phillip Lux, Johnny Lindgren, Jeff Amos, Lori Dotson, Brandon Daws, and
Matthew Faries in your prayers.
**Baby Shower**
A shower for Natalie Nelson is
planned for Sunday, August 15th, from 2-4 p.m. in the Annex. The Nelsons are
registered at Toys R Us. It's a boy!
**Farewells**
Philip, Vicki and Rani Abuzeide
will be moving to Louisiana on August 11th. Landon will be staying in Fort Smith
to attend UAFS.
The Benincosa Family is moving to Searcy. Their new
address is:
Tom & Roxie Benincosa
Casey & Nichole
24
Whippoorwill
Searcy, AR 72143
See note from Roxie
below.
**Notes of Thanks**
Dear West-Ark,
Our e-mail will be the same. Tom
will be in Fort Smith until August 17th. The kids and I are moving to Searcy
July 31st! We love everyone and please stay in touch. If anyone needs a place to
stay while here, let us know -- especially anyone traveling to Little Rock for
Medical treatment. We are only 45 minutes from there!
Love
you,
Benincosas
A big thank you to the ladies who made clothing for
the children of Southern Christian Home. We took three big boxes of children's
clothes to SCH last Monday, and they were thrilled to get those beautiful little
dresses and pants. This is truly a way to let your light shine. Thank you again
for supporting the children, and may God continue to bless us in our efforts to
serve others and glorify His name.
Jim Hardin
Dear Church Family,
Thank you so much for your
prayers, cards, and the comfort offered in the death of my mother, Daisy
Jackson.
Fred & Janet Jackson
Dear West-Ark Church,
I would like to take this
opportunity to thank the West-Ark church for allowing Mr. Jack Lewis the freedom
to help me during a great time of need. I am a member of the Way - I enjoy
being able to attend Sunday services at a small group rather than a large one.
Back in April after being told I needed open heart surgery, I happened to tell
another member. I was told that Mr. Lewis would help me in any way I needed. He
went out of his way to come and visit me and even pick me up when I was
released. Had it not been for Mr. Lewis and the West-Ark church, I truly
don't know what I would have done. Please accept my heartfelt thanks and may you
continue being so very helpful.
Sincerely yours,
Ernest P.
Carron Jr.
**Wedding Invitation**
In the spirit of
Christian joy
Mr. and Mrs. Curtis McDonald and
Mr. and Mrs. Stephen
Price
invite you to share in the joy
of the marriage uniting their
children
Genoa Momilani and Jeremy Lynn
on Saturday, the seventh of
August
at two o'clock in the afternoon
West-Ark Church of Christ
Fort
Smith, Arkansas
Reception immediately following the ceremony
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**Summer Experience**
By Aaron Davis (Youth
Summer Intern)\
My summer experience with the teens has been
interesting in a good way. I have learned so much from every experience I have
had this summer. There's nothing that I would have done any different. If it had
been any different I don't think I would have seen what God wanted me to see. He
has thrown so much at my feet, and I am thankful for Him allowing me to see it.
I think God was trying to test me this summer
through everything that has happened. Or another thought is that the Devil is
trying to run me off by engulfing me with trials. Well either way it didn't
work, I have found my place in youth ministry and I plan to do this for a long
time. There's nothing in this world that could tear me away from ministering to
the youth.
There have been some days that all I wanted to
do is scream at the top of my lungs and run as far and as fast as I could, but
then there also were many times that I knew that God was totally here in the
hearts of these teens. Just last week at the Soul Lift Rally at St. Louis, one
of our teens came to me just as the worship service was over. They had been so
touched by what had occurred during the service. They said to me "Aaron, have
you ever really known God was with you? I mean that you could really feel Him in
your soul."
These teens are going through many spiritual
transitions in their lives. The seniors are leaving, and we are about to see
some new leaders crawl out from deep within the trenches of the spiritual war we
fight every day. I'm always surprised who will jump up next and say, "Take me
Lord, I'll go." This group never ceases to amaze me. I am going to hate leaving
them.
We have shared so many good experiences
together. A word to the teens, "Be strong and courageous and do not be afraid as
the Lord goes with you each and every
day."
**Second Sunday Nursery**
A.M. Infants
Trish
Carson
Jane Dunavin
Morgan Dunavin
Dwonne Cogswell
Vicki
Anderson
P.M. Nursery
Marquetta Walker
Sheila
Vaught
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM
Worship 678
Bible Classes 453
Sunday PM 280
Small Groups 6
Wednesday
P.M. 360
Contribution $16,067
Children's
Home $279
Hispanic Attendance 44
Hispanic Contribution
$191
Laotians Attendance 47
Laotian Contribution $231
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