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Family Lines Newsletter, January 6, 2005
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**The Astounding Turnaround!**
By David Chadwell
 
Matthew 16:23, But He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me; for you are not setting your mind on God’s interests, but man’s.”

In one of the most remarkable “turnarounds” in Jesus’ ministry, Peter went from the disciple to whom God revealed Jesus’ true identity (Matthew 16:18, 19) to the disciple used by Satan to tempt Jesus. Astounding! One moment he was a recipient of God’s special revelation declaring Jesus was the Christ. The next moment he was used by Satan as a means of tempting Jesus. In back-to-back incidents, he was used by God in a special way and then by Satan in a special way. That alarms us! The fact that God made use of him did not mean that it was impossible for Satan to use him!

One special insight is provided by the Greek word translated "stumbling block." It literally means "a bait stick in a trap." The common form of traps for animals in ancient times was a snare. For the snare to be effective, the animal must be lured inside the snare. Thus a stick was scented with a smell that either appealed to the animal or incited the animal’s curiosity. When the bait stick deceived an animal and lured it by smell into the snare, the animal was trapped and eventually lost its life.

It is fascinating that the person deemed fit for God’s special revelation was also deemed fit to be the "bait stick" (the lure) into a snare Satan set for Jesus! After Peter declared Jesus was the Christ, Jesus began to explain to the twelve that he would suffer, be killed, and be resurrected in Jerusalem. To Peter it was unthinkable that God’s promised Christ would suffer and be killed! He responded to Jesus’ information with, “This shall never happen to you.” At that moment, Satan used Peter as a "bait stick in a trap." Satan through Peter said, “There is a route to being Lord that does not include suffering and crucifixion.” To Jesus, that possibility had appeal. Though Peter did not comprehend the significance of what he said, what he said was a deadly temptation to Jesus.

This world, temporarily under the control of evil, is filled with snares set for the righteous. It is easy for God’s man or woman to be deceptively lured into those snares—by materialism, by consumerism, by pleasure, by security, by fear, by ignorance, by arrogance, by pain, by jealousy, etc. We need each other’s help and encouragement as we walk through a life filled with snares.

Just as with Peter, the fact that God uses you for His purposes does not mean that Satan cannot use you for his purposes. We need each other! It is so easy to be deceived by evil! It is so easy to think evil is good! It is so easy for curiosity to destroy us! It is so easy for the "present moment" to blind us! It is so easy for us to substitute our expectations for God’s priorities!

We need each other’s spiritual encouragement. We need each other’s spiritual eyes and spiritual values. We need to help each other see the snares and avoid the "bait sticks."

Please do not let Satan use you as his "bait stick"! Dare to be God’s encouragement!

 
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**Rememeber in Prayer**
• Tina Eudaly (mother of Mary Burkett) had emergency surgery for an intestinal blockage. While still in the hospital, she suffered a mild heart attack.
• Noah Bice (infant son of Josh and Kim) is sick with congestion and wheezing.
• Thelma Blackburn is in St. Edward Hospital, room 5410.
• Tim Williams (son-in-law of Bob and Jane Fisher) continues to improve following his surgery.
• Janelle Graves is out of the hospital following gall bladder surgery on Tuesday.
• Charles Rogers is in Sparks Hospital ICU (218).
• Doris West is in Sparks Hospital, room 539.
• Bobby Parks is in Sparks ICU (201).
• Ava Jones is going to Little Rock for tests on Thursday (January 6).
 
**Continued Prayers**
• Adam Jenkins
• Wilma Son
• Eddie Hamlett
• Don Green
• John Hundley
• Taylor Anders
• Larry Treat
• Chuck Cunningham
 
**Prayers for Men in Service**
• Matthew Faries
• Michael Gooden
• Shane L. Newton
• Brandon Daws
• Daniel Kweekul
• Aaron Bailey
• Philip Lux
• Johny Lindgren
• Adam Morrissun
• Ronnie Wheat
 
**New Address for the Huffs**
Jon and Liz Huff
12754 West Verde Lane
Avondale, AZ 85323
 
**Placing Membership**
Chris and Carrie Burress
2419 Katie Lynn Circle
Alma, AR 72921
Phone (479) 216-0815
 
**Baptism**
Charles and Victoria Moore
3216 Blair, Apt. 3
Fort Smith, AR 72904
Charles was baptized on December 27th by Oscar Nolasco. Charles and Victoria wish to worship with us (Victoria is already a member).
 
**60+ Event**
Our next potluck is Saturday, January 15th at 6:00 p.m. in the Annex.
 
**Elders-Deacons Meeting**
Sunday, January 23
4:00 p.m. in the upstairs room of the Family Life Center.
 
**Guyana Mission Team**
We will meet at 7:00 p.m. on Sunday, January 16 in room 100.
 
**Note of Thanks**
Dear Church Family,
Thank you for the cards, the fruit basket and most of all your prayers.  As Don continues his battle with cancer, your prayers are a great encouragement, especially as none of the treatments have been effective. They help in the daily living with pain and stress. Thank you so much.
 In Christ,
 Don and Carol Green
 
**Congratulations Shelly!**
Shelly Robbins has an article appearing in the current issue of Christian Woman magazine (January/February, 2005). Shelly’s article is titled, “In the Beginning” and encourages Christian parents to not shy away from the God versus evolution fray.
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
January 9
Jessica Frost
Bill Kamp
Marcia Tomlin
 
January 10
Russell Burger
Judy Wright
 
January 11
Nancy James
Nathan Kimbrow
 
January 12
Emma Jennings
Sam Lively
Tyler Robbins
Charlotte Rye
 
January 13
Reynda Allen
Florence Cotner
 
January 15
Cathy Breedlove
Seth Dunavant
Sandy Pearson
 
**Tsunami Disaster Relief**
The West-Ark elders have experience with and trust these agencies to accept your donations for disaster relief. All money received will be utilized in the name of Jesus Christ to meet the needs of recent earthquake and tsunami victims.
Follow the hyperlinks to their individual Web sites.
 
Partners In Progress
P.O. Box 150
Little Rock, AR 72203  
 
White's Ferry Road Church of Christ
3201 N. 7th Street
West Monroe, LA 71291
 
Rapha International
402 Blue Smoke Court West
Fort Worth, Texas 76105  
 
Healing Hands International
455 McNally Drive
Nashville, TN 37211
 
Please mark your tax-deductible check for "tsunami disaster relief.”
 
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**Dynamic Marriage**
(Formerly His Needs Her Needs)
 
Dynamic Marriage is an eight-week interactive marriage class for couples who want deeper intimacy and commitment in their marriages. Dynamic Marriage is designed to:
• Fine Tune Good Marriages
• Strengthen Weak Marriages
• Heal Broken Marriages.
 
Current plans are to start the class either on January 23 or January 30, 2005.  We will need commitment from at least 10 couples. Class will meet weekly for 2 to 2 1/2 hours and will require 3-4 hours of homework each week. The cost for everything needed is $130.00. For those “returning couples” who wish to repeat, the interactive course is $60.00.  The first class facilitated at the West Ark church was in May, 1998. Since then 106 couples have completed the class!
 
Family Dynamics developed Dynamic Marriage in 1994. The class is based on two nationally acclaimed books by psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Willard Harley, Jr. The class blends helpful, practical materials with powerful interactive tools to create new habits in marriage. 
 
Couples Learn
• How your Love Bank affects your relationship.
• What your most important Emotional Needs are.
• How to identify and meet each other’s most important needs.
• Why most marriages don’t survive perpetual Love Busters.
• How affairs begin, how they can be stopped, and how love can be restored.
• Why people commit to or abandon a relationship.
• How to build compatibility.
• How to maintain a mutually fulfilling relationship.
 
Paul Shirley and Mat Griffin are facilitators certified by Family Dynamics Inc. Let them know if you are interested in taking the class.
Paul Shirley  (H) 474-5256  (O) 474-5100
Mat Griffin   (H) 452-1472  (M) 883-4906
 
**Attention Ladies!**
Our retreat is coming up quickly.  Please register today in order to reserve your place for this great time of fellowship, folks and fun! We don’t want anyone to miss out on this opportunity.  If you need financial help, please email Dena Jenkins at denaj@swbell.net or see one of the ladies listed below.  If you would like to contribute to these funds, please contact us in the same manner. Register by simply calling 471-0464 (Christy Anders), emailing Dena Jenkins (address above) or by signing up at the Information Center in the foyer.  The deadline is January 12, 2005!
 When:  January 28-29
 Where:  Kerr Mansion in Poteau
 Price:  $65.00 (due 1/12/05) (This covers room, food, t-shirt and goodies, too!)
If you would like to come, but not stay overnight, the cost will be $40 for meals, T-shirt and goodies.
Need more info?  Talk to Christy Anders, Heather Curtis, or Melissa Myers.  See you there!!
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
The first week of each New Year always reminds me of two things and they both involve anniversaries. I started my ministry at West-Ark on January 1st, 1991. Then one year later, on January 4th, I started my marriage relationship with Yvonne.
 
While January 1st and January 4th are the official dates for these two relationships, I actually started preparation for both relationships long before those dates arrived.
 
Any good relationship has a beginning in which the proper ground work must be laid. Scripture would call this ground work the “foundation” and good relationships will not last without one.
 
I am thankful and I am blessed because of these two relationships. My relationship with this congregation and my relationship with my wife touch literally every single area of my life in one way or another.
 
So many great things have happened over the past 15 years because of the ways God has used these relationships - allowing them to work hand in hand. I look forward to the beginning of my 15th year of ministry and my 14th year of marriage.
 
And speaking of preparation for future relationships, there will be a “Planning Meeting” for all 7th-12th graders and their parents, on Sunday, January 16th in the Youth Room. We will meet from 5-6 p.m. to discuss the spring and Fall Schedule. Please be there! This will set the foundation for a great 2005 for our youth and families!
 
**Second Sunday Nursery**
 
A.M. Infants
Trish Carson
Jane Dunavin
Morgan dunavin
Dwonne Cogswell
Vicki Anderson
 
P.M. Nursery
Marquetta Walker
Sheila Vaught
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM Worship 681
Bible Classes  470
Sunday Evening 266
Small Groups 29
Total 295
Wednesday PM  NC
Contribution   $21,804
Children’s Home   $756
Hispanic Contribution $106
Hispanic Attendance 34
Laotian Contribution $243
Laotian Attendance 34
The Way Contribution $72
The Way Count 46
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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"Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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