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Family Lines Newsletter, March 3, 2005
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**Exciting Challenges Become Exhausting Demands**
By David Chadwell
 
Life has a definite irony just in living!  As time passes, we find ourselves becoming what we never intended to be!  When I was young, I never, never considered the possibility some day I would be young no longer.  Now, youth seems a dream, not a reality! 
 
Recently I had specific reasons for recalling past times “when I was (or I did) …”  Often when occasions for recalling come, it seems like a dream about times that never existed—“did I ever do that?”  Now I marvel I ever had the energy for "tireless devotion."  My mind feels young, but my body talks to me.  “You plan to do what?  Oh no, you are not!”  Unfortunately, with increased frequency, my body "has the last word."
 
Why is this happening?  There was a time when I changed as fast as my world changed.  Yet, the world never stops changing.  We do, but the world does not!  In our youth "keeping up" was natural.  Then came the day when "keeping up" required conscious effort.  Then came the day when we realized we were not "keeping up."  At first we were only "a little" behind.  Inevitably the day comes when we know we are much behind!
 
For the wise, experience replaces exuberance with patience.  When I was a young adult I wanted everything to happen now.  With age, I realized a startling difference between "changes for the better" and "growth that produces development." 
 
Increasingly I marvel at God’s patience: 
• About 2000 years between promising Abraham, “In you all nations of the earth shall be blessed” (Genesis 12:3) and sending Jesus to be the Christ? 
• A century after Jesus’ resurrection to convince believers that God loves all people—regardless of their past or background? 
• Delaying the return of Jesus Christ to provide more opportunity for people to repent (2 Peter 3:9)?
 
Somewhere there is a balance between the youth’s exuberance and the fears of the older.  As God’s people, we neither wish to discourage youth’s exuberance nor be controlled by the fears of advancing age.  God uses youth’s exuberance!  As we grow older, it is not our fears God wants—it is our patience.  Even in aging, patience as surely reflects God’s purposes as does exuberance in our youth! 
 
May we never confuse exuberance with good or patience with discouragement!  Dare have the faith and courage to be exuberant!  Dare have the faith and courage to be patient!  Let God Himself teach us both!  He was both in providing us a Savior!  May we be both in being His people!
 
1 Timothy 4:7, 8 But have nothing to do with worldly fables fit only for old women. On the other hand, discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness; for bodily discipline is only of little profit, but godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.
 
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**In Our Thoughts & Prayers**
• Pearl Beam is scheduled to have a pacemaker put in Thursday morning (3/3/05) at Sparks Hospital. She will be there overnight.
• Sarah Newton is home from the hospital and recuperating. She is scheduled for knee surgery later on. Sarah’s prayer pager is 441-1648.
• Frances Quenin had spinal surgery Wednesday. She is in Sparks Hospital, room 491. Her prayer pager is 441-2593.
• Aaron Canfield Logan (infant son of Coby and Megan) will go to Children’s Hospital on April 1st for tests on a heart murmur.
• Chris and Carrie Burress request prayers for their 4-year old daughter, Taylor. Test results will be in next week.
• Marjorie Blake asks for prayers for a friend, Billie Bolin, whose daughter was killed by violence.
• Opal Hewitt Dexter is in Sparks Hospital, room 419.
• Palmer Richardson (daughter of Scott and LoriAnn Richardson)
• Kerry and Dena Jenkins’ trip with Adam to see specialists in Dallas was very encouraging. Adam has a follow-up visit there in three months.
• Fred Jackson is recovering at home. His 4th surgery at UAMS is not scheduled yet.
• Vicki Varvel (daughter of John and Nadine Hawkins)
• Paul Flippo
• Maile McDonald
• Eddie Hamlett
• John Hundley
• Anita Maxwell
• Don Green
• Larry Treat
• Chuck Cunningham
 
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended to Jo Griffin in the death of her half-sister, Betty Brewer, of Pryor, OK on Tuesday. Funeral services are incomplete at this time.
 
**Dismissed from the Hospital**
• Maggie Allen (Kevin and Reynda’s daughter)
• Del Ingram
• Jim Boatright
• Helen Epton (Rebecca Holloway’s mother)
 
**Missionaries in Prayer**
• __________ in Laos
• Thomas & Kindy Kweekul in Thailand and Laos
• __________ in Vietnam
• John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley in France
 
**Mission Prayer Request**
Roxie Benincosa (formerly of West-Ark) requests prayers for a mission team she is traveling with from Harding University’s College of Business to Donetsk, Ukraine. The seminar teaches how faith in God factors into our business decisions. They will also visit two orphanages while there. The group leaves 3/3/05.
 
**Prayers for Men in Service**
Matthew Faries, Shane L. Newton, Daniel Kweekul, Aaron Bailey, Philip Lux, Adam Morrissun, Ronnie Wheat, and David Jennen.
 
**Welcome New Members**
Michael & Shelley McGehee
Malory and Mason
103 Beam Lane
Pocola, OK 74902
Phone: (918) 436-7770
(See Shelley’s note under “Meals for New Moms” page 3.)
 
**Note of Thanks**
To West-Ark Church Family,
 Thank you so much for your kindness during this difficult time. The cards, calls, thoughts and prayers were very much appreciated.  Thanks also for the peace lily. I will enjoy it and think of your kindness and also my sweet Daddy each time I see it.
 In Christian love,
 Kay Pressley and Family
 
Dear Church Family,
 Thank you so much for all of the thoughts and prayers regarding our doctor’s visit this past Friday.  We could definitely feel the presence of our Almighty God through all of you lifting us up.
   The information we received from the doctor was that he also did not feel that the Chiari Malformation was the cause of Adam’s symptoms but did want to continue to watch any progression of it with an additional MRI to be done in about a month.  (We don’t have an actual date yet.)    He also informed us that Adam has 2 small infarcts or spots deep within his brain that may be the cause of his developmental delays.  He thinks there is a real possibility that Adam will grow out of most if not all of his symptoms.  Praise God!  Only time will tell. 
 We were very encouraged by this visit and appreciate so very much your continued prayers and encouragement regarding our Little Bud!
 Love in Him,
 Kerry & Dena Jenkins
 
**Ministry Updates**
• Deacon for K-6 Education -- Kerry Jenkins
• Deacon for Visitation and Involvement – Gary Brown
• 60+ Ministry Leaders – Winston & Danna Turpin; Jim & Diane Arnold
• Meals for New Moms – Shelley McGehee
 
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**********RESCHEDULED***********
The “Heart of Worship” week has been rescheduled due to Tom Chapin's illness. Please notice the date changes IN ALL CAPS.
Teachers: Be prepared to follow a normal class schedule this week (3/6/05 and 3/9/05).
 
**Heart of Worship**
*SUNDAY, MARCH 13*
Tom Chapin (Guest song leader and speaker)
9:30 a.m. Bible class
10:30 a.m. Worship
6:00 p.m. Worship
 
*WEDNESDAY, MARCH 16*
Tom will return for 7:00 p.m. Teaching & Worship
 
The youth and college groups will join us in the auditorium at all these times.
Children’s Worship services will not be held the morning of 3/13/05.
The elders request that all adult classes and LIFE Groups join in Sunday, MARCH 13 at 9:30 a.m. and 6:00 p.m. and again at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, MARCH 16. 
 
**LTC Practices**
Sunday, March 6
• 2:00 Junior High Chorus      
• 3:00 Senior High Chorus
• 4:00 Junior High Bible Bowl
• 5:00 Drama
• 5:00 PARENT MEETING in Room 100 for parents of participants who plan to attend the Tulsa Convention.
• 6:00 All Puppets
 
Friday, March 11
• 5:30 -- Rehearsals for Elementary Chorus, Elementary Drama, and all Puppets. 
We will serve pizza to the kids and show the movie “The Book of Luke” during the break for pizza.
 
**Preschool Teachers Needed**
We have the following teaching/helping opportunities for our preschool department:
 
WEDNESDAY NIGHT, 1ST GRADE (ASAP)
WEDNESDAY NIGHT, 2 YEAR OLDS (JUNE, JULY AUGUST)
WEDNESDAY NIGHT, KINDERGARTEN TEACHER (ASAP)
 
We also need several people to be on a substitute list for all of the preschool classes (2 year old – 1st grade). If you can help with any of these, please call Dena Jenkins at 478-6486 or email her at denaj@swbell.net .
 
**Gateway Announcement**
All Gateway kids (2nd – 6th grade) should meet in Room 100 at 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday evenings.
 
**60+ Gathering**
Our next potluck supper is Saturday, March 19, at 6:00 in the Family Life Center
 
**Car Clinic**
Saturday, March 5
Annex parking lot
8 to 11 a.m.
 
**Widows/Widowers**
Wear your green and come to our "Green Luncheon" on Saturday, March 5, at noon in the Annex.  If you need transportation call Mary (64-6079), Bobbie (674-5814) or Janice (474-8851).
 
**Meals for New Moms**
 I am trying to start a ministry that serves meals to all new mothers at West-Ark.  My former church home, (Duncan, OK) had this ministry which I benefited from when I had my son, and I would like to continue this helpful ministry at West-Ark.
 Please e-mail me if you would like to be a part of this ministry. Upon signing, I will call to ask you to prepare either a meat and bread or veggie and dessert, once mom and baby come home. Simple as that!
 ~~Shelley McGehee
 shelleymcgehee@sbcglobal.net
 
**Photos Needed**
The LTC Elementary Scrapbook group needs photos of church-related grade-school events, such as KFC, VBS, Gateway, etc.  If you have photos to share, please see or call Karen Benjamin (414-8166).
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
March 13
Carol Green
Sarah Miller
Richard Nelson
John Richards
 
March 14
Vicki Anderson
John Berger
Maxine Yates
 
March 15
Matthew Hines
Hayley Elise Sanchez
Janie Wyatt
 
March 17
Marie Lile
 
March 18
Evan Dunavin
Meredith Dye
Caitlin Kleman
Suzette Todd
Brad Walker
 
March 19
Marie Arnold
David Berger
Shirley Bullard
Meg Canfield
 
** “Written Without Ink”**
Click on the link below to read Chris Benjamin's web journal.
http://www.westark.org/benjamin/blog.htm
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
*Special Series on Worship – March 13th and 16th*
 
Just in case you missed it, our guest speaker and worship leader for this week is sick. His name is Tom Chapin, and he is a worship leader from Little Rock. We have rescheduled him for the following week, March 13th and 16th.
 
He will be leading us through a special series on worship during the Sunday morning class, Sunday morning worship service, Sunday night assembly and Wednesday night class.
 
This series will be very good for the overall benefit and growth of the West-Ark congregation. The elders and ministers all believe this will be good for all of us to go through together.
 
Therefore, our 7th-12th graders will join all of the classes mentioned above on Sunday, March 13th and Wednesday, March 16th. All assemblies will take place in the auditorium. I really look forward to this time together as we learn more about what God expects from us through our worship.
 
As a result of these changes to this weekend, we will have regular classes in the Youth Room on Sunday Morning, Sunday Night and Wednesday night, March 6th and 9th.
 
*7th – 12th graders will meet for class in the auditorium during the Sunday a.m. class., Sunday p.m. worship and Wednesday p.m. class on March 13th and March 16th.
 
**First Sunday Nursery**
 
A.M. Nursery
Melissa Walker
Dena Jenkins
Irene Willis
Annette Sharp
 
P.M. Nursery
Dixie Burkhart
Gina Williams
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM Worship 679
Bible Classes  460
Sunday Evening NC
Small Group 21
Wednesday PM  353
Contribution   $17,308
Children’s Home   $224
Hispanic Contribution $269
AM Hispanic Attendance  59
 PM Hispanic Attendance  7
Laotian Contribution $234
Laotian Attendance 30
The Way Contribution $61
The Way Attendance 54
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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"Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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