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Family Lines Newsletter, March 16, 2006
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**Who Do You Seek to Please?**
By David Chadwell
 
Life is a complicated journey!  At every age, it is complicated.  For a young child conflicted by a parent’s desire to use her sexually, the situation is complex.  For an insecure teen allured by the seeming affections of a date who would exploit him or her, the situation is complex.  For a single adult wishing to establish his or her own home, the situation is complex.  For the adult whose boss expects him or her to be dishonest, the situation is complex.  At every stage in life’s journey, demands are often complex.
 
To be a ruler in Palestine who had to maintain allegiance to Roman control was complex.   The Jewish people in the first century hated their loss of independence.  They viewed rulers dependent on Rome as enemies.  They were endlessly on the verge of defiance through violence.  They were almost impossible to appease.  Ruling first century Jewish people was a headache, not a picnic!  Their anger and volatility could make or break Roman appointed rulers! They often “broke” such rulers!
 
There is a small but insightful statement in Acts 12:3.  Herod Agrippa I mistreated the church.  The verse begins this way: “And when he saw that it pleased the Jews ...”   Mistreating Christians was in his political best interest as he tried to rule some very difficult people, so he continued to mistreat Christians in order to make his work easier.
 
In life’s complicated challenges, always consciously keep service to God as a real option.  When you deal with complex situations in your family, ask yourself, “Where is God’s place in my options?”  When you deal with complex situations in your marriage, ask yourself, “Where is God’s place in my options?”  When you deal with complex situations in your work, ask yourself, “Where is God’s place in my options?”  When you deal with complex situations in your training, ask yourself, “Where is God’s place in my options?”  And when you are tempted to be selfish in your decisions, ask yourself, “Where is God’s place in my selfishness?”
 
Who do you seek to please?  Your wife?  Your husband?  Your children?  Your boss?  Your clients?  Your peers?  Yourself?  Whose interests define who you are and what your life is about?
 
Ungodly people typically cannot be pleased.  To the degree that they are ungodly, they are unappeasable.  To the degree that a person is selfish, he or she is unappeasable. Godly people can be pleased when their focus is on God.  To the degree that a situation focuses such people on God, they are challenged to do and produce good.
 
Who do you seek to please?  Ungodly people?  Yourself?  God?  The more it is your intentional aim to please God, the more life’s journey becomes a joy and the less it becomes drudgery.  Making the reactions of anyone else the foundation of your life is simply too complicated!
 
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**Remember in Prayer**
(In alphabetical order by first name.)
• Audra Bocksnick has pager 441-2290. She is going to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MI, for tests beginning Monday.  Please pray for her and Shane.
• Chuck Cunningham (cancer treatment)
• David Hardy (David is the son-in-law of former members, Ken & Connie Tipton. Read Connie’s note in Family Update.)
• Joan Jenkins’s next CAT scan is 3/20/06. Read Dena’s note in Family Update.
• Joel Prigge (brother-in-law of Louise Howard; cancer treatment)
• John Paul Hundley (missionary in Marceilles, France) as he continues his recovery from heart surgery.
• Myra Flippo has an appointment with a lung surgeon on March 29.
• Opie Curle (brother of Barbara (Mrs. Harry) Smith, is recovering from heart valve replacement surgery in Nashville, TN.
• Patty Kaiser had gall bladder surgery over the weekend and is now home.
• Raegon Waid (6 ½ week old niece of Patrick and Dana Pruitt) is in ICU at Children’s Hospital in Little Rock. Raegon had heart surgery today. Her parents are John and Amy Waid.
• Sharon Barker received good news from her heart cath on Wednesday morning. There are no blockages, or dead heart tissue; everything appeared normal!
• Slats Slaton (Brian Pistole’s father-in-law; cancer treatment)
• Vashtie Locklear (Judy Walker’s mother)
• Wendell Fenton (father of Natalie Nelson; cancer treatment)
 
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended to Terri Jones in the death of her grandmother, Irene Neumeier. Funeral services were March 15 in Paris, AR.
 
Ed Winton (former West-Ark member) died Monday in Springdale, AR. Graveside services were March 16 at Bluff Cemetery.
 
**Prayer Pagers**
A 441-1648 (unassigned)
B 441-1734 Jane McGowan
C 441-2290 Audra Bocksnick
D 441-2344 Sharon Barker
E 441-2591 John & Melody Priester
F 441-2593 Duane Walker
G 441-6639 Anita Maxwell
H 784-7490 Patty Kaiser
I  441-1791 Jeana Belote
J 441-1792 Amanda Daws
K 441-2388 West-Ark Elders (group)
Pagers A-J as a group: 441-2395                                   
 
**Military in Prayer**
Mitchell Bryant, Shane L. Newton, Adam Morrissun, Alan Todd, and Charlie Remaley.
 
**Missionaries in Prayer**
• Jerry Canfield and Thomas Teng (Lao Church) in SE Asia.
• Thomas Kweekul in Thailand.
• John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley in France.
• Our missionaries in Laos and Vietnam.
 
**Praise!**
Malcomb Gordey, uncle of Donna Miller, Laura Smith, and Marilyn Selby was baptized last week at the age of 85. Mr. Gordey is living at Fianna Hills Nursing Home.
 
**Note of Thanks**
I appreciate the cards you sent, the phone calls, and the prayer pager. It buzzed non-stop! Janet and I really appreciate it.
 Fred & Janet Jackson
 
Jesus said, “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for Me.” You have shown your servant hearts to us during Nash’s surgery and recovery. Thanks for the many acts of kindness.
Love in Him,
Mike, Mary, Kate & Nash Burkett
 
**Family Update**
Let us begin by saying how very grateful we are for all of the prayers that are being lifted up to the father on behalf of Joan.  God has answered those prayers in that Joan’s symptoms have diminished somewhat.  Although she still has reduced sensation, vision and hearing on her left side, the horrible pain is gone for now – praise God!  They are back at home now.  She had her first of 10 radiation treatments today.  She will have 5 this week and will repeat the process next week.  Please continue to pray for Joan’s comfort and strength as she begins the third round of her battle with this horrific disease.  We also continue to pray for her complete healing since we know that the Divine Healer can do what science may say is impossible!  To Him be all the glory and praise! 
   Dena Jenkins (edited for length)
   3/14/06
 
Dear family and friends,
I am writing to request your special prayers in behalf of our son-in-law,  David Hardy. David has been having some pain in his left side.  He had two cat scans very recently and they indicated a meaty mass on the top of his kidney and several spots in his lungs.  Until today, they were not saying it was cancer but are now more convinced that may be the case. They do feel the cancer has either spread from the lungs to the kidney or the kidney to the lungs but of course without the biopsy and other information, it is hard to know specifics at this time.  We do know God hears our prayers and He is in control. David just turned 31 years old last Wednesday. Kenna and David believe strongly in God's will in their lives.  They are going through some very difficult hours now as they learn what must be done. Please, please lift them up in prayer often to our heavenly Father that everything will be done to help rid him of this evil disease, cancer.
 With all our love,
 Ken and Connie Tipton (3/15/06, edited for length)
If you would like to send a card to David and Kenna Hardy, their address is 4169 Anderton Blvd., Horn Lake, MS 38736. 
 
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**Changes of Address**
Chris and Dorian Belt
2210 Dow Jones Road
Alma, AR 72921
 
Stephen and Jamie Richardson have moved to Waco, Texas. Jamie has family in that area.
 
**Baby Shower**
A shower is planned for Kim Bice and baby daughter, Harper, on Sunday, April 2, from 4:00 to 5:30 p.m. in the Annex. They are registered at Toys ‘R Us. Harper was born January 26 to Josh and Kim.
 
**Bible on CD**
If you would like to purchase the complete Bible on CD, we have one set (NIV, dramatized version) available for $99. Please see Lynn Dickey if you are interested.
 
**Joy Bunch!**
Come and join us Saturday, March 18 at 6:00 p.m. in the FLC for our potluck PLUS a style show – see the latest fashions!
 
**LTC Rehearsals**
• NO REHEARSALS MARCH 19
• There will be rehearsals for all performance groups (chorus, puppets, and drama) on Friday, April 7. It will last from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Pizza will be provided!
 
**LTC Art**
All Art must be turned in to Shanna Davis by Sunday, April 2nd. If you need criteria sheets, they are on the LTC table in the foyer.
 
**We’re Getting Ready for Community Outreach Day**
We need workers at The Hope Chest to get everything ready for Community Outreach Day on April 1st. The work schedule is listed below. There is much to do; there is work on every hand. Come and help us!  Call Kathy Rosalez at home or The Hope Chest (479 784-9715) if you have questions.
 
The Hope Chest, 717 North 4th & H Streets, Fort Smith, AR
 
Workers Needed Monday, March 20
• 9:30 - open bags, boxes, sort clothes
• 12:00 -  lunch
• 12:45  - sort and hang clothing
• 3:00 – break
• 3:30 - open bags boxes, sort, hang clothing
• 6:00 - close
 
Workers Needed Tuesday, March 21
• 9:30 - open bags, boxes, sort clothes
• 12:00 – lunch
• 12:30 – sort, hang clothing, tables
• 3:00 - close
 
**Workers Needed Friday, March 24**
• 9:30 - open bags, boxes, sort clothes
• 12:00 – lunch
• 12:30 – stock tables, sort, hang clothing
• 3:00 – finish straightening tables, etc.
• 6:00 - close
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
March 12
Alex Tomlin
 
March 13
Carol Green
Sarah Miller
Richard Nelson
John Richards
 
March 14
Vicki Anderson
John Berger
Maxine Yates
 
March 15
Matthew Hines
Hayley Sanchez
Janie Wyatt
March 17
Marie Lile
 
March 18
Caitlin Kleman
Linda Shank
Suzette Todd
Brad Walker
 
March 19
Marie Arnold
David Berger
Shirley Bullard
Meg Canfield
 
March 20
Blake Frost
 
March 21
Courtney Griffin
 
March 22
Linda Allen
Debra Gail Hatfield
Donna Roper
Chuck Rothwell
Helen Walker
Greg Wewers
 
March 23
Diane Arnold
Garrett Keller
Kimberly Layman
Troy Sweeten
 
**Faith Comes By Hearing**
Week 9; Days 57- 63
The complete 60, 90-day schedules are online at http://www.westark.org/library/schedule.htm
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
Coming Spring Events
 
March 20-24
Fort Smith Area Spring Break
 
March 23-25
Tulsa Workshop
 
April 14-15
LTC in Tulsa
 
April 14-15 
Spring Sing at Harding University
 
May 21st
Senior Graduation Services
West-Ark Church
 
**A.M. Nursery**
Jennifer Jennen
Flora Johnson
Kristy Abernathy
 
**P.M. Nursery**
Sheila Vaught
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM Worship 667
Bible Classes  454
Sunday Evening 304
 Wednesday Evening 324
Contribution   $18,273
Children’s Home $263
Laotian Attendance 23
Laotian Contribution $125
Iglesia de Cristo
Attendance 58
Contribution $221
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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"Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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