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Family Lines Newsletter, June 22, 2006
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**Could You Explain to Me Why You Act That Way?**
By David Chadwell
 
Ephesians 6:10-12, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.”
“Excuse me. I have been observing your behavior for a long time.  Could you explain to me some things?  Why do you treat your wife as you do?  [Or, why do you treat your husband as you do?]  Why are you always careful to show your children respect and love?  Why are you so conscientious and trustworthy in your work?  Why do you refuse to lie when it seems it would be in your best interest to lie?  Why are you always so honest—you will not steal even when you could get away with it; you will not be unfaithful to your wife [or husband] even when no one would know it; you tell the truth even when the truth hurts you; you help people when you know he or she might be taking advantage of your generosity; you show respect to people who obviously have no respect for you.
 
“I have tried and tried to figure it out, and I cannot.  The way you live and the way most people live is in such contrast.  Such behavior does not make you richer.  I see catastrophe come to your family as it does to other families.  Your behavior is not some sort of magical physical protection.  So I often ask myself, ‘Why does he [she] live that way?’  It just does not make sense to me.”
We increasingly live in a society in which godly behavior does not make sense.  There was a time when godly behavior seemed to be a way of life many of the industrious disadvantaged embraced.  That time was followed by a period when the industrious disadvantaged prospered.  As these people prospered, the church prospered.  In fact, that period was followed by a time when the church was filled with the successful middle class.  It is amazing to note what congregations could afford in 1975 that they could not afford in 1945!  It is equally amazing to note how the lifestyle of the typical Christian family changed during that same time period in this society!
 
But, again, times have changed.  The time when godliness was admired and rewarded has passed.  We increasingly live in a period when godliness is looked upon as foolish, and when many Christians think the path to godliness lies in political control rather than godly behavior.  Too often we allow society rather than God to define the meaning of key words—fun, pleasure, success, prosperity, ambition, commitment, love, etc.
 
Perhaps there are two things in our awareness we need to awaken.  (1) The realization that someone else notes how we live.  (2) The realization that our struggle is against something much bigger than the ‘here and now.’
 
Just in case someone asks about the way you live, please do not begin your response with, “I belong to the Church of Christ…”  Begin with, “I belong to the God who gave me Jesus Christ.”  Honor God and Jesus in your lifestyle.
 
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**In Our Thoughts & Prayers**
• Dustin Medley (age 28) was recently diagnosed with lung cancer. Prayers are requested that a treatment be found he will respond to. Dustin is a former student of Metro Christian School.
• Valerie Treece Elam was recently diagnosed with liver cancer. Valerie is a member of the Alma Church of Christ and a family friend of Sharon Faries' since they were teens.
• Pam Flippo Rhodes requests prayers for the Barrie Family and specifically, Mark (the father) who had a positive PET scan. Either a biopsy or surgery will be scheduled soon. Mark and his wife, Jill, have four children.
• Debbie Hendrix asks for us to pray for a family friend, Shirley Miller, who was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer. Debbie would also appreciate anyone who will comfort or encourage her friend with a card.
Shirley Miller
3319 Ridgeview Ave., Trailer 38
Springfield, IL 62702
 
**Continued Prayers**
Hailey Clayton, Jane McGowan, Joan Jenkins, and Joel Prigge.
 
**Military in Prayer**
Mike Russell, Lori Dotson, Mitchell Bryant, Shane L. Newton, and Adam Morrissun.
 
**Missionaries in Prayer**
• John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley in France
• Our missionaries in Laos in Vietnam.
 
**Bereaved**
Our love and sympathy is extended to Fran Wade and John & Susan Wade in the unexpected death of husband and father, Carl Wednesday afternoon at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Little Rock. Funeral services are not yet complete.
 
Last week we received the news at Bro. Shirley Allison (a former member) died June 15 in Pocahontas, AR. If you would like to send cards to the family, their addresses are:
Mrs. Ella Allison
1519 CR 730
Jonesboro, AR 72401
 
Doug & Debbie Allison
768 Richmond Lane
Keller, TX 76248
 
**New Arrival!**
Congratulations to Paul & Alyssia Beneux on the birth of a daughter. Vivian Claire was born June 20 and weighed 6 lbs. 7 ozs. and was 20 inches long. Big brothers are Alex and Karsten. The happy grandparents are David & Donna Beneux and great-grandmother, Eleanor Casey.
 
**Baptism**
We rejoice with Amanda Broom on her decision to be baptized into Christ on June 11! Amanda is the daughter of Blake & Lisa Broom.
 
**Staying in Touch**
Dorotha Kirchner
1709 Cunningham Avenue
Rogers, AR 72758
Phone (479) 466-1754.
 
Greg & Robin Simpson
2394 Oakview
Springdale, AR 72762
Phone: (479) 927-9447
 
**100th Birthday Celebration!**
This coming weekend Roy Dunavin's mother will be celebrating her 100th birthday. Joyce Chadwell suggests it would be nice if Mrs. Dunavin got lots of cards from West-Ark "… because what could make a mother happier than knowing so many people love her son!" Great idea, Joyce!  Roy’s mother’s address is:
Mrs. Frankie Dunavin
3306 SE 13th Ave.
Amarillo, TX 79104
 
**Memorials**
Rocker/Glider -- A rocker/glider was recently added to the Children’s section of the church Library The glider was purchased with memorials given in memory of Mary Wells (mother of Joyce Chadwell; Richard Hostetler, and Virgie Neal (mother of Don Neal). Please do not remove the glider; it is to remain in the Children’s Library.
 
Park Bench  -- A park bench was recently placed outside the entrance of our building. The bench is given in memory of George Thompson.
 
**Notes of Thanks**
To my dear friends at West-Ark,
I want to thank each one of you who prayed for me, sent me cards, called me or just thought about me and my family during the past seven months. Currently, I have completed six chemo treatments and the cancer is in remission.  God is so good! You’ll never know how much your prayers meant to me. I will be continuing chemo treatments once a month for another 12 months. Lord willing, this will aide in keeping the cancer in remission. Thank you again for all you’ve done.
 In Him,
 Jane McGowan
 
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For security precautions, "Mission Report from Kumphawaphi," by Jerry Canfield, is not published online.
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole  
 
A BIG THANKS to all of the volunteers, adults and teens who help make Vacation Bible School possible each year.
 
It was another great year!  We had the opportunity to serve over 220 area elementary children each day and teach them about the beginning of the life of Jesus.
 
Thank you for taking the time to make a difference in the lives of children. They will remember experiences like this and be blessed by it for years to come. May God bless all of you for giving back and making this week a priority in your life.
 
Just a reminder…Splashdown Lock-in at Wild River Country in North Little Rock will take place this Friday and Saturday. We will leave at 4:30 p.m. on Friday afternoon.   We will return to the building early Saturday morning for a big breakfast.
 
We have a large group of about 40 teens and parents going. The cost will be $20 and will include your ticket to Splashdown and your breakfast. Each person will also need to bring approximately $10 for supper on the way there and for snacks.
 
Be sure to bring a towel and a change of dry clothes for the trip home.  Parents, you will need to pick up your teens at the FLC at 7 a.m. SHARP on Saturday morning!
 
**June 25 Nursery**
 
Morning
Berniece Rogers
Sharon Faries
Kristin Smith
Donna Roper
 
Evening
Angela Dunavant
Denise Lusby
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
June 25
Debbie Hendrix
John Kamp
Betty Porter
 
June 26
David Gates
 
June 27
Patrick Murphy
Cami Stancil
 
June 28
Jean Dicks
Paige Kimbrow
 
June 29
Bethany Brown
Sedalia Douglas
Margaret Thompson
 
June 30
David Burns
Judy Walker
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
 
Morning Worship 738
Morning Bible class 440
Evening Worship 247
Contribution $19232
Wednesday Night 273
Children's Home $209
 
Iglesia de Cristo
 Attendance 67
Contribution $204
 
Lao Church
Attendance 38
Contribution $195
 
**The Hope Chest**
Open Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays
9:30 a.m.  – 2:30 p.m.
Phone: 784-9715
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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 "Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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