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Family Lines Newsletter, September 21, 2006
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** “They would not do that – would they?” **
By David Chadwell
 
When a Christian is active in God’s family on earth for a many years, he or she experiences many joys and sorrows.  He or she experiences the joys of knowing, being encouraged by, and witnessing quality people do incredible things.  He or she also experiences the sorrows of seeing some of those same incredible people make some extremely disappointing personal decisions.
 
There are moments I remember feeling “justified” for doing things that I now deeply regret.  There are moments I remember saying things I thought were profound only to discover later that they were only stupid.  Unfortunately, life does not have a “do over” button.  When “now” anxieties “justify” anxious decisions, later in life [when hopefully we know better because we have learned more] all we can do is live with the regret.
 
I have seen incredible sacrifice, unbelievable kindness, quiet acts of service, planned thoughtfulness beyond imagination, and forgiveness only because hearts were touched by God.  I have witnessed Christians take enormous risks to be kind.  I have seen Christians care for people one would not have thought they noticed.
 
Also, I have seen one elder force another elder to resign because “he is consistently late.”   I have had a mature Christian come to my carport before daylight multiple times to put roofing nails under my tires because he was angry with me.  I once saw two leading men of a congregation prepare to fist fight each other in a business meeting because they disagreed.  I witnessed a congregation’s leadership totally alter their decision process to keep one negative person from vetoing all mission decisions.  I have been told by an angry Christian that every problem existing in a congregation was my fault.  [None of these incidents occurred at West-Ark.]
 
In all these situations, Christians felt fully justified in their acts and decisions.  Also, all these Christians did some truly godly things.  In my judgment, they just got more emotional and anxious about matters than God is.  Thus, they decided they were “justified” in settling matters their way instead of God’s way.
 
When we are dead and not even an asterisk on the horizon, God will still prevail.  We need to exercise great care to assist God and not Satan in our anxieties.  High on God’s priority list is the godless world learning peace from God’s family.
 
Paul made this statement to Jewish Christians and gentile Christians who were in such dispute that they treated each other as enemies: “But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another” (Galatians 5:15).
 
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**Remember in Prayer**
• Belle Wood  -- continue to pray for her as she is treated for lung cancer. (Late update: Belle was admitted back into St. Edward Hospital this afternoon.)
• Carl Nichols is in Sparks Hospital, room 693. He is still having lots of pain.
• Donna Looney was diagnosed with cancer this week. Her doctors are considering treatment options.
• Hazel Richards fell late Wednesday evening and broke her right knee. She is in Sparks Hospital, Room 571, and may go to rehab later.
• Rachelle Pratt is scheduled for neck surgery on Friday, September 29 in NW Arkansas.  Dr. Larry Armstrong is doing her surgery.
• Mary Broyles is scheduled for a back procedure on September 26th.
• Maggie McElroy, mother of Bill Stokes, is in Sparks Hospital, hospice care.
• Shirley Austin (mother of Sharon Barker) is still recuperating at HealthSouth, room 206B.
• Tammy Flippo (Myra’s daughter-in-law) is recovering from back surgery. Prayers for her healing are requested.
• Allie Whitaker requests prayers for her mother, Allie Green, who is in St. Edward Hospital, room 3314 for dehydration.
• Allie also requests prayers for her sister, Carolina Sue Cecil, and her sister’s friend, Charles Weavers. They are both very sick with the flu.
 
**Prayers for Bereaved**
Please remember these families in your prayers:
• Sarah Smith and family in the death of her mother, Lois Jester. Funeral services were Monday at West-Ark with burial in Paris, AR.
• Lois Lancaster in the recent death of her son, Jerry Buchanan.
 
**Prayer Pagers**
441-1792  Belle Wood 
441-2290  Carl Nichols 
441-1791  Sharon Barker (for her mother, Shirley Austin) 
784-7490  Hazel Richards 
 
**Military Prayer List**
Wes Roper, Lori Dotson, Mitchell Bryant, Shane Newton, Adam Morrissun, Jeff Amos, Jonathan Smith, Brian Harris, Kyle Evans, and Charles Hardy.
 
**Searching for Photos from the Past**
In preparation for the Ladies’ Retreat, we are collecting photos of ladies’ events from the past. If you have pictures of past Bible classes, fellowships, retreats, ladies’ days, that you can share, please give them to Esther Gunn, Staci James or Tracy Risley. They will be returned!
 
**Notes of Thanks**
 
West-Ark Quilters,
Thank you so much for the beautiful quilt! It is really neat to have something like this from people in the church family and for them to remember a special time in our lives.
Love,
Ashley & Randy Scott
 
Thank you for the lovely peace lily and all your prayers and concern.
 Bill & Karan Tygart & Family
 
West-Ark,
Thank you for the peace lily you sent for mother’s funeral. Your caring service over the past many years is greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Bob Mason
 
The ladies who were honored with the Motherly Love Dinner would like to thank the honorable ladies who honored us! We hope you know how special and how loved you made us feel! Warm thanks to Margaret, Coleen, Louise, Donna, Barbara, Meg, Vivian, Martha, Janice, Jean, and Lynn from those who enjoyed your outpouring of love.
 
Dear Church Members,
I appreciate so much your kindness in sending the beautiful peace lily to the funeral of my mother, Florence Hays. I was also touched by those of you who sent me cards. We are happy to be a part of this church family.
 Sincerely,
 Marcia & Charlie Dye
 
What wonderful people you are. Thank you for the beautiful flowers at my mother’s passing. Thank you also for the concern for Don. 
 God bless you,
 Don & Barbara Abernathy
 
**Life Group Starting**
Bible study: Philippians
Date: Sunday evening, October 1
Host home: Belotes, 101 N. 51st St.
Study Leader: John Priester
Time: 6:00 p.m. (5:30 for once-a-month potlucks)
If you are looking for a Life Group, please give one of us a call!
* John & Melody Priester
* James & Patti Anderson
* Ron & Debbie Belote
 
**Ladies’ Restrooms**
Many ladies have gratefully commented on the decorations, mirrors, and seating that have been added to our restrooms. After our remodel a few years ago, they had an “unfinished” look, but now are welcoming and stylish. Many thanks to our decorator (who wishes to remain anonymous) for sharing her talent with us!
 
**Mary’s Missing Tray**
Some years ago, Mary Broyles lost a silver hostess tray that means a great deal to her. The tray is by Tupperware and is called the “Tupperware Rose.”  Ladies, please check your silver pieces and see if we can find Mary’s missing tray.
 
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**Sunday Night**
Come at 6:00 p.m. for a time of singing led by Chuck Combs.
Afterwards, we'll have a Fellowship Meal in the FLC -- all who can, please bring desserts!**
 
**Top Ten Reasons you should find a Ministry to be involved in:**
 10. God has picked work for you to do.
 9.  If you don’t do it, who will?
 8.  It will make a difference to someone else.
Return next week for the numbers 5-7!
 
**Sunday, October 1**
Elders, Deacons, Ministry Leaders and all Staff  -- and anyone else who may want to come for a Pot-Luck Lunch ….
 * Noon - 1:30 p.m. in the Annex
 * This will be a true old fashion pot-luck. We will eat what is brought with no assignments as to who is to bring what!  Bring something!  Drinks will be provided.
 
**Sunday, October 8**
Worship
Dinner on the grounds
 * Hot Dogs, Burgers…
 * Various ministries will have displays so you can learn more about what they do.
1:30 p.m. afternoon Worship
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
12th Annual CROSSWALK Youth Rally (for 7th-12th graders)
Rogers, AR, Southside Church of Christ
 
September 30th – October 1st
Saturday (9 a.m. – 9 p.m.)
Sunday (8 a.m. – 10 a.m.)
 
Theme: Spoken For (Romans 8:12-17)
Keynote Speaker: Mitch Wilburn – Tulsa, OK
Worship led by: Acappella
(Acappella will also sing on Saturday night)
Skit Group and Drama Class taught by: Seekers from Abilene Christian University
Classes will be taught by area ministers: David Scott, Andy Brazle, Brad Pistole, Jimmy Allen, and Andy Wilson
Our vans will leave at 7:00 a.m. on Saturday morning, and we will return by 1 p.m. on Sunday afternoon.
 
**Morning Nursery**
Berniece Rogers
Sharon Faries
Kristin Smith
 
**Evening Nursery**
Angela Dunavant
Denise Lusby
 
**Happy Birthday**
 
September 26
Patricia Campbell
Julie Kleman
Curtis McDonald
Sue Medlock
Noah Risley
Wanda Wooster
 
September 27
Gail Bishop
Patty Kaiser
William Tygart
 
September 29
Nathan Griffin
 
September 30
Richard Broyles
Mia McClendon
Luke Nelson
Hazel Richards
Brian Robbins
 
October 1
Denise Lusby
Melinda Yowell
 
October 2
Joe Pistole
 
October 3
Caroline Campbell
Terri Jones
Darrell Peters
 
October 4
Debra Lively
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM Worship 670
Bible Classes  460
Sunday Evening 356
Wednesday Evening 325
Contribution $17,558
Children’s Home $217
 
Laotian
Attendance 32
Contribution $158
 
Iglesia de Cristo
Attendance 55
Contribution $173
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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"Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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