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Family Lines Newsletter, June 21, 2007
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**Holy Manners: Sincerity**
By David Chadwell
 
“And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ ...” (Philippians 1:9, 10)
 
Our sincerity is a window that reveals our motives.  In this culture, there are few things that irritate any of us more than having a person ‘fake’ sincerity.  Why are we offended so much by ‘fake’ sincerity?  One significant reason is this: When a person ‘fakes’ his or her sincerity, he or she hides his or her motives.
 
Successful con-artists are masters at ‘faking’ sincerity.  Their primary motive is to scam you and thereby bring you harm.  However, they are effective in making you feel that they care infinitely about your hurt and dilemma.  Their real motive is to gain your money or your valuables.  They make you think their real motive is compassion.  Their ‘fake’ sincerity hides their real motive.
 
Because we grasp the nature and importance of sincerity, Christians understand the need to be ‘transparent.’  Because we are family in Christ, we want each other to know, “I am trustworthy.  I neither seek to hurt you nor use you.  Because my sincerity is real, you can see my motive.  I do not seek to deceive you, but to encourage you.”
 
Sincerity requires compassion. One of the reasons for Christians being easy to deceive is found in their compassion.  Christians are compassionate because they care about people.  Their caring is genuine.
 
Sincerity within the Christian family can be difficult.  Are we all the same?  No!  While we differ in personalities, we are all in Christ.  I do not have to be “ditto marks” of you, and you do not have to be “ditto marks” of me for us to care about each other.  Our sincerity with each other always declares, “We may differ, but you never have reason to fear me.  I have your back, and I will never stab it!”
 
If people who refuse to turn to God do not learn good spiritual manners from the Christian family, can they learn good spiritual manners elsewhere?  If they cannot see in us a sincerity that is trustworthy and caring, where will they observe it?  Never forget that the way you treat others speaks more eloquently about your attitudes and motives than just about how you feel about that person.
 
Just as Jesus Christ is to us in our weaknesses and flaws, we are to others in Christ in what we regard to be their weaknesses and flaws. Physically, I love my family, flaws and all, and my family loves me, flaws and all.  I do not love only those in my family who are just like me, and they do not love me because I am just like them.  Is that not the way it is in your family?  That is the way it needs to be in God’s family!
 
"We will know by this that we are of the truth, and will assure our heart before Him in whatever our heart condemns us; for God is greater than our heart and knows all things." (1 John 3:19, 20)
 
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**The Power of Prayer**
• Bill Stokes' surgery went well on Monday, and he is doing great.
• Bob Williams (father of Debbie Belote) is recovering from surgery and waiting on test results.
• David Allison (Barbara Smith’s son-in-law) is recovering from surgery to amputate both legs.
• Janet Tabor (friend of Missy Blasdel) is waiting to be scheduled for brain surgery at UAMS. Janet is having severe problems with vision and headaches. Missy asks that we pray for Janet and her family as she awaits surgery.
• Jill Brightwell (sister of Jenna Dickey and former Guyana team member) contracted malaria on a recent mission trip. She asks for prayers for recovery from this illness.
• Laurie, the daughter of Marvin & Bobbie Hughes, is suffering from severe headaches. She will receive pain management before surgery is considered to relieve this condition.
• Lorene Turner, a former West-Ark member, will have a pacemaker replaced, Friday, June 22, at Baptist Hospital in Little Rock.
• Luis Mendez had back surgery on Tuesday (6/19/07). He is feeling much better and is recovering at home.
• Lyndell Foster’s test results were good.  He is scheduled for surgery to remove a tumor from his small intestine on July 10.
• Ed Grist requests prayers for his granddaughter, Madelyn Grist, a 7-year-old with Cystic Fibrosis. Madelyn is currently in a Wichita, Kansas, hospital with a bacterial infection. 
• Wendy Grist (Ed’s daughter-in-law) is suffering some severe symptoms from Lupus.  Jeremy (Ed’s son) is taking care of both of them (Madelyn and Wendy).
• Mary Wray (Vicki Anderson’s mother) has moved to a nursing home in Van Buren for rehabilitation.
• Minnie Oakley (Blake Frost’s grandmother) is recovering from colon surgery.
• Nicole Wilson had bunion surgery on Wednesday (6/20/07). She will be off work for about a week.
• Retta Rodin (Gretta Payne’s mother) is still in Sparks ICU in critical condition.
• Rusty Howard (son of Wilburn & Louise) had his first chemotherapy treatment on Monday.
 
**Bereaved**
• Dora Harriman (mother of former West-Ark minister Jack Harriman) passed away this morning (6/21/07) in Huntsville, AR. Please remember the Harriman Family in your prayers.
 
**Welcome, New Members!**
Alan & Tami Buchanan
Jake, Jesse
2506 B Dora Rd
Van Buren, AR 72956
Phone: 471-3356
 
James & Julia Garrett
1305 N. 25th St
Van Buren, AR 72956
Phone: (918) 774-7112
 
Adam Dizer
5100 S. Zero, #1707
Fort Smith, AR 72903
Phone: (423) 240-9228
 
Joe Morgan
3514A South N Street
Fort Smith, AR 72903
Phone: (865) 335-5841
 
David Moore
5100 S. Zero, #1707
Fort Smith, AR 72903
Phone: (501) 593-7158
 
Anthony & Jackie Sofio
5100 S. Zero, #1710
Fort Smith, AR 72903
Phone: (214) 507-0743
 
**Baptisms**
Michael Cain
309 S. 3rd, Apt. 3
Van Buren, AR 72956
Phone: (479) 410-1969
Michael was baptized Sunday night by Jack Lewis.
 
Tori Sweatman was baptized Wednesday night by Brad Pistole. Tori is a member of the West-Ark youth group.
 
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**Change of Address**
Richard Branum
2623 South Waldron Road
Fort Smith, AR 72903
Phone: 452-9991
 
**Prayer Pagers**
• Lyndell Foster, 441-1648
 
**Military Prayer List**
Please add Beth Frederick’s brother-in-law, Bob Collier, to this list. He leaves for Iraq next week.
 
Adam Morrissun
Brian Perkins
Brian Harris
Jeff Amos
Jonathan Smith
Kyle Evans
Michael Anderson
Ron Wheat
Stephen McElroy
Thomas Lara
Wes Roper
 
**Missionaries in Prayer**
• Our missionary families in Vietnam and Laos.
• John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley in France.
• Steve & Colleen DeLoach, Operation Guyana.
• Evangelists and their families with whom we work in Ethiopia and Nigeria.
 
**New Adult Class**
Room 106 (off the main foyer) is the location of a new class for the “20-Something” age group on Wednesday evenings beginning June 20th.
 
**Wedding Announcement**
Matt Greer and Lindsey Harmon were married June 16th at Central Church of Christ in Little Rock.  Matt is the grandson of Tom & Mary King, and the son of Mark & Suzie Greer of White Hall, AR. Lindsey is the daughter of Rick & Tammy Harmon of Bella Vista, AR.
 
**Notes of Thanks**
Dear Fellow Christians:
I want to thank the church for your donation to the library as a memorial to my sister who died Sunday morning, May 27th. Also, I appreciate each of your personal comforting words.
Yours in Christ,
Paul Quenin
 
I am now home!!!  Thank you for the times you helped during my time of healing.  I thank all those who helped me.
Bonnie Marrs
 
**VBS Thanks!**
A HUGE “Thank you!” to all who helped make VBS 2007 possible.  Without all of your hard work and dedication, it simply would not have been possible.  May our children, families, and church family be blessed because of your efforts.  To Him be all the glory and praise!
 
**Wedding Shower**
A shower honoring Jessica & Stanta Cotner is planned for Sunday, June 24, from 2:00 – 3:30 p.m. in the Annex. The Cotners are registered at Wal-Mart. Jessica is the daughter of Ken & Lisa Hollomon. Couples are invited to attend.
 
**Attention Green Valley “Day Campers”**
Sunday, June 24, is the deadline to let Beth Frederick know if you need a ride to Green Valley Day Camp.
 
**Ladies’ Video Class**
Wednesdays, 7 PM in Room 222
We’re watching videos on the Old Testament. Ladies are invited to attend.
 
**The HOPE CHEST**
We have a great need for:
• Clothing for babies and younger boys and girls – sizes newborn through Toddler 3.
• Men’s shoes (mainly tennis shoes) in all sizes.
If you have any items in these sizes which you can share, they will be most appreciated. New items are also welcome. OUR RACKS ARE ALMOST EMPTY AND SUMMER IS JUST BEGINNING. Just put your donations in the large container in the foyer.
 
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**Family Life Ministry**
By Brad Pistole
 
Do you ever feel overwhelmed? Life can get so BUSY sometimes, can’t it? It’s sometimes hard to know where to begin and what to spend your time focusing on.
 
I hear this reason given a lot when it comes to reading the Bible. People get very intimidated by the concept of “following all of those rules.” Many people end up overwhelmed and realize that they can’t possibly “measure up” to all of those expectations, so they usually don’t even try.
 
If you think about it, there are 66 books in the Bible and there is SO MUCH information to digest. Someone reading it for the first time realizes it’s not humanly possible to “do everything just right.”
 
So what do you think? When there is so much information and so many different things to pay attention to, what should get the most attention? Should you focus on the RULES, the TRADITIONS, the DOCTRINES, appropriate WORSHIP styles, etc? Where should you begin?
 
Jesus was asked a question very similar to this so it would be good for ALL of us to take a step back and listen to his response. We should keep this as a constant reminder of what we should remain focused on. After all, Jesus said there are two things in scripture that deserve MORE attention than everything else.
 
Do you remember what he said? Please take the time to read it: Matthew 22:35-40.
 
After he gives the answer to those who had asked him the question, he reminds them of something very important. He says, “All the other commandments and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.” (vs. 40)
 
How different would the church be if we focused on the words of Christ and put into practice these two things? How would this change our world?
 
May God help us all as we strive to live daily in accordance with the MOST IMPORTANT things he has taught us and may we put these two things ahead of everything else on our “to do” list.
 

**Happy Birthday**
 
June 24
Trish Carson
Clint Jones
 
June 25
Debbie Hendrix
John Kamp
Betty Porter
 
June 26
David Gates
 
June 27
Patrick Murphy
Cami Stancil
 
June 28
Jean Dicks
June 29
Bethany Brown
Sedalia Douglas
Margaret Thompson
 
June 30
David Burns
Shane Hughes
Judy Walker
 
**Morning Nursery**
Sharon Fairies
Bernice Rogers
Kristin Smith
 
**Evening Nursery**
Angela Dunavant
Denise Lusby
 
**Attendance and Contribution Count**
Sunday AM Worship 705
Bible Classes 502
Life Groups 9
Contribution   $20,349
Children’s Home $282
 
Lao Worship
Attendance 41
Contribution $226
 
Iglesia de Cristo
Attendance 41
Contribution $134
 
Office Phone (479) 452-1240
Fax  (479) 452-5767
office@westarkchurchofchrist.org
www.westark.org
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"Making disciples for Jesus who are eager to serve others."
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