The unscheduled (?) time of summer school vacation is over. In May, parents
and students yearned for school cycle schedules to end. In August, parents
and many students yearned for those schedules to return. The truth: school
year "hectic" and summer "hectic" are each truly hectic. Each is quite
different. But in spite of their differences, each deserves the designation
of "hectic."
Is it not amazing that the school year cycle has a primary influence on all
our lives? That cycle affects all of us. That cycle even affects those of
us whose children are grown. Does any grandparent wish to affirm that the
happenings in the lives of your grandchildren has zero impact on your life?
The cycle of the school year powerfully influences the activities of the
congregation. Some things cannot be done well in the summer because of
realities created by summer vacation. Other things can occur only in the
summer because summer provides the necessary opportunity.
Summer is commonly a "helter skelter, spur of the moment" period for most
people. It is the time of family vacations, weekends at the lake, ball
teams, spur-of-the-moment "just-for-fun" trips, and family reunions. Summer
months are more flexible for many people. There are fewer scheduling
conflicts.
However, scheduling conflicts and over commitment reign supreme from
September through May. Prioritizing is essential. With priorities, life is
difficult. Without priorities, life is impossible.
A critical essential: make certain that you use a mature, wise perspective
before you establish priorities. Priorities established without perspective
live to mock us by bringing grief and regret. The death of someone we love,
our own serious illness, the consequences of poor choices, children who
reject responsibility, defiant teens, the pregnancy of an unmarried
daughter, the addiction of a son, the "lovers" affair of a husband or wife,
divorce, or that economic reversal that totally alters life are just a few
of the things that make a mockery of our priorities. These are just some of
the things that transform the "essential" into the "ridiculously
insignificant."
As the school year begins, prioritize with a godly, mature perspective. As
you set each priority, consider that priority's message to your spouse and
your children. Consider that priority's heart message to God. In your
priorities, is the eternal supreme?
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