Our "comfort zone" is the area in which we feel comfortable. It has
boundaries. We cross a boundary when we "feel" uncomfortable. Anything
that or anyone who makes us uncomfortable violates our comfort zone.
Anything making us uncomfortable is resisted.
Comfort zones do not declare good or bad, measure right or wrong, or define
the "God approved" or "God condemned." Comfort zones protect personal
comfort. They vary radically. What is comfortable to one is uncomfortable
to another. Comfort zones more likely involve personal preferences than
God's teachings.
Can comfort zones include standards, practices, convictions, or behaviors
that are ungodly? Certainly! When a Christian is comfortable with
something ungodly, does his or her comfort make it innocent or good? No! A
classic objective of Satan's deceit is to make us comfortable with evil. We
perceive no danger or threat from the comfortable.
Can comfort zones exclude standards, practices, convictions, or behaviors
that are godly? Certainly! When a Christian is uncomfortable with
something godly, does his or her discomfort make it evil? No! Another
classic objective of Satan's deceit is to make us uncomfortable with the
godly. The deceit: "If I find it uncomfortable, God cannot like it!" We
are less likely to open our hearts and minds to God if that openness creates
personal discomfort. When Satan makes us uncomfortable with an avenue to
greater spirituality, we close our hearts to God.
Many crises in Christ's body incorporate the "theology of personal comfort
zones" in their foundation. We individually assume that "my" comfort zone
is "God's" comfort zone. We assume if "I don't like it," God does not like
it. We assume "my comfort zone came from God." Therefore, "I" impose "my"
comfort zone on other Christians as "God's truth." "I" transform "my"
conscience's reactions [that must be respected] into God's will.
No one's comfort zone dictates God's methods or comfort level. No Christian
would passively allow a group to unjustly execute his or her son, regardless
of how much good the death could achieve. No Christian would demand that a
preacher marry a prostitute in order to be a living parable to the
congregation (Hosea).
Our objective: do not allow "my" comfort to restrict God's work and
purposes. Our objective: allow God to change us so that our comfort zones
will include everything that comes from God and expresses itself in Jesus
Christ.
The question never is, "Am I comfortable?" The question always is, "Am I
growing into the image of Christ?" Spiritual growth specializes in
violating comfort zones. Godliness makes us uncomfortable. Evil, not
godliness, places a premium on comfort.
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