Recently I talked to a friend after an auctioneer sold his family's material
possessions. The objective of this type of auction is to dispose of the
estate. Late in the day there are some incredible "bargains." For family
members, it is often a time of unique grief.
Why? Piece by piece, chair by chair, plate by plate you watch a lifetime
disappear. It is as though a huge eraser removes the marriage of your parents,
removes your childhood, and removes your immediate family's history. Things
accumulated through a whole lifetime of living disappear in one afternoon.
Late in the day the auctioneer begs anyone to make an offer on things that
are priceless in your memories, but of little "real" value to anyone else.
Amazed, you note how little money a lifetime of accumulations is worth. The
value is cheap. The "real" evaporates. When the sun sets, all is gone.
What do you have that someone would want? Your vehicles? Your house? Your
furniture? Your "prized" possessions? Maybe now. What about 10, 15, 25
years from now? In time, how many of your "prized" possessions will be
"prized" only by you? Are you not amazed when you realize "memories" are
the principle ingredient of a "prized" possession? Take away the memories,
and many priceless "prizes" have little value. "Prizes" are best shared
with memories still attached. To the one with an attached memory, it is
priceless. To the one without an attached memory, there is little value.
I hope your most valuable things are not material. I hope the most "prized"
qualities of your life have little to do with what you own. I hope prized
memories are about you and not about your possessions. I hope the most
valued qualities of your life include compassion, mercy, kindness, respect,
consideration, fairness, and gentleness. I hope the most valued qualities
in your life are rooted in your faith in God and Christ. I hope the thing
you have that others most admire and desire is your faith.
Consider this wondrous quality of faith: the more you share it the more you
have. Your faith in God and Christ is never diminished by sharing it with
someone else. When you share it, it becomes no less valuable, no less
"prized" by you. In fact, the more you share it, the closer you come to God
and Christ.
Sunday is a day for sharing. In the first century, the most powerful
influence that initially attracted others to those who belonged to Christ
was their sense of community. We want visitors to see that we have and
share something special: a sense of community taught to us by Jesus Christ.
May it be obvious to everyone that we care and love. May they feel our
caring and love by being with us. May our desire to share our caring and
love be obvious. May it be obvious that Jesus Christ taught us to be that
kind of people.
May the value of your faith be seen. May others want to find what you found
in Jesus Christ. May your faith in Jesus be the most valuable thing you
possess.
Link to other Writings of David Chadwell