Sermons of David Chadwell
CHRISTIANITY AND RELATIONSHIPS
(Part 4)
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Sacrificing animals, animal blood, the first fruits of a crop, and crop products
to God was a way of showing dependence on and appreciation for God. For
generations, people who sought God and depended on God sacrificed. Abel
sacrificed. Abraham sacrificed. Sacrificial acts were a part of worship for
Isaac, Jacob, the nation of Israel, and devout Jews early in New Testament
history. The core of Passover involved sacrifice. Deuteronomy 16:16 instructed
all the men of Israel to gather in the place God chose three times a year with
gifts (sacrifices). Leviticus 1-7 states sacrifice was involved in burnt
offerings, in peace offerings, and in sin and guilt offerings.
When God solved our problems produced by alienation through sin, He sacrificed.
We have forgiveness available to us because God offered an enduring sacrifice.
We can escape the eternal consequences of our sins because God sacrificed. We
can become God's people because He sacrificed. We can enter an eternal agreement
or covenant with God because He sacrificed.
Today you can refer to yourself as a Christian because Jesus was the sacrifice.
His body assumed our sins.
For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you,
leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor
was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in
return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to
Him who judges righteously; and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the
cross, so that we might die to sin and live to righteousness; for by His wounds
you were healed (1 Peter 2:21-24).
His blood atoned for our failures (Hebrews 9:11, 12). It is Jesus' blood that
makes possible our righteousness, justification, redemption, and propitiation.
But now apart from the Law the righteousness of God has been manifested, being
witnessed by the Law and the Prophets, even the righteousness of God through
faith in Jesus Christ for all those who believe; for there is no distinction;
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, being justified as a
gift by His grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus; whom God
displayed publicly as a propitiation in His blood through faith. This was to
demonstrate His righteousness, because in the forbearance of God He passed over
the sins previously committed; for the demonstration, I say, of His
righteousness at the present time, so that He would be just and the justifier of
the one who has faith in Jesus (Romans 3:21-26).
Literally, we can come into God's presence because God sacrificed Jesus for our
benefit, and every Sunday we acknowledge that sacrifice in communion. We also
acknowledge His sacrifice for us every day in the way we live our lives.
Without God's willingness to sacrifice Jesus for us and Jesus' willingness to be
God's sacrifice for us, there would be no Christianity, no church, and each of
us would be helplessly ruled by our mistakes.
- At some point, sacrifice and the proper motive for sacrifice were separated in
the human thought process.
- I challenge you to give some serious consideration to the way we think about
spiritual realities.
- First, many of us think relationship with God is a matter of procedure, not a
matter of motives and procedure.
- Second, many of us think if we do the correct things, those correct acts of
themselves will produce a wonderful relationship with God.
- Let's put those two observations in words we use every day.
- We often think relationship with God is just a matter of doing the right acts at
the right time.
- What we really feel about God does not actually matter as long as we do the
right things.
- Let me give you an example.
- Sunday morning it is essential that I be in a church building at the proper time
for worship.
- When the congregation sings songs to praise God, I either need to listen to the
singing or sing.
- When the congregation prays, I need to bow my head.
- When the congregation takes communion, I need to take communion.
- When the preacher preaches, I need to at least pretend to be listening.
- I simply cannot be anywhere else doing anything else until I have worshipped.
- However, why I come and what I feel is unimportant.
- I do not have to mean anything that I sing, I just have to sing or to listen.
- I do not have to pray; I just have to bow my head.
- I do not need to gratefully remember Jesus' sacrifice; I just have to take
communion.
- I do not have to think as the preacher preaches; I just have to pretend to
listen.
- I do not have to engage my heart in praising God; as long as I do the right
things, worship occurs.
- Long ago in 1 Samuel 15 God told King Saul explicitly how to avenge God's wrath
on the Amalekite people for their attack on Israel when Israel left Egypt.
- Contrary to God's directions, King Saul spared the best of the animals.
- King Saul declared "the people" (his army) spared the best of the livestock for
"sacrifice" to the Lord (1 Samuel 15:15).
- Samuel made this statement to King Saul in 1 Samuel 15:22,23:
Has the Lord as much delight in burnt offerings and
sacrifices As in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than
sacrifice, And to heed than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of
divination, And insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have
rejected the word of the Lord, He has also rejected you from being king.
- I want you to note one point: sacrifice to God is meaningless if it comes from a
rebellious heart.
- Generations did not understand this truth.
- Once, the Pharisees accused Jesus' disciples of violating the Sabbath because
they picked and ate some raw grain.
- Jesus refuted their conclusion in three ways--two were examples they regarded as
coming from an authoritative source, and one was a scripture they attributed to
the will of God.
- The scripture Jesus' quoted to them was from Hosea 6:6:
But if you had known what this means, I desire
compassion, and not a sacrifice, you would not have condemned the innocent
(Matthew 12:7).
- On God's priority list, concern for people was as significant as sacrifice.
- To give God a sacrifice while having no concern for people is of no
significance to God.
- Their problem was not created by not knowing what God said, but from not knowing
what God meant by what He said--they saw the words, but they did not see the
meaning.
- The problem.
- The problem existed because sacrifice to God was separated from love for God.
- The ancient concept that continues in human thinking today is this: what matters
is a person's acts.
- His or her motives behind the act do not matter.
- So, in worshipping God or living for God, acts matter, but motives do not
matter.
- That has never been true!
- That is not true in human to human acts!
- Why should we decide that is true in acts dedicated to God?
- Let's make an application of this incorrect view to marriage and the home.
- In your relationship with your spouse, are you happy and fulfilled if your
spouse does the right things, but has no concern for you as a person?
- Are you happy and fulfilled as a person if your spouse tells you the right words
but has no feeling for you behind the words?
- Are you happy and fulfilled as a person if your spouse tells you the right
things in order to get you to do what he or she wants done?
- Before we go further, let's make a clear distinction.
- We are NOT talking about toleration of a bad situation because you decide it is
better to get something instead of getting nothing--so if your spouse does
something right for the wrong reason, at least your spouse did something.
- We are NOT talking about giving up, saying to yourself nothing is ever going to
change, nothing is ever going to get better--so, I best get what I can get.
- We are NOT talking about learning to "play the game"--whatever the form "the
game" takes.
- Not the game of "it is my time to win."
- Not the game of "if I approach you right, you have to do what I want."
- Not the game of "you owe me because of what I did for you."
- Not any other game that basically says that you are not important as a person,
and I will use you in any way I must to get what I want to get.
- If in your marriage, one or both of you function on the basis of words or
actions without regard to motives, honestly tell yourself how you feel.
- Do you feel appreciated as a person?
- Do you feel respected as though you matter?
- Do you feel used?
- Do you feel manipulated?
- Do you feel worthless?
- Do you feel you do not belong to yourself?
- Does your spouse have any idea of how you feel? Do the two of you talk and share
or do the two of you fight and argue?
- And both of you are Christians?
- As Christians, do you fight or argue Sunday morning until you get to the church
building, then behave like the ideal Christian family while you are at the
church building, then fight and argue the rest of the day?
- Does that fit your definition and concept of being a Christian?
- Is that the way you treat everyone else?
- If someone came into your home unexpectedly, could the visitor slice the tension
between you and your family as if were a block of cheese?
- Does that fit your definition and concept of being a Christian?
- Is that the way you act in other circumstances?
- Does what happen in your home depend on who gets and can maintain control?
- Does that fit your definition and concept of being a Christian?
- Is that the way you act in other contexts?
- May I make the point I have repeatedly made.
- If knowing God through Christ has increased your understanding of the link
between godliness and respect, the first person who should benefit from your
understanding of the importance of expressing respect because you are a godly
person should be your spouse, and the second people should be your children.
- If knowing God through Christ has increased your understanding of the link
between godliness and kindness, the first person who should benefit from your
understanding of the importance of expressing kindness because you are a godly
person should be your spouse, and the second people should be your children.
- If knowing God through Christ has increased your understanding of the link
between godliness and love, the first person who should benefit because of your
understanding of the importance of showing love because you are a godly person
should be your spouse, and the second people should be your children.
- Think with me for just a moment.
- Is being respectful, being kind, being loving a part of godliness?
- Should a Christian be respectful, kind, and loving to all people--even
strangers--because the Christian understands people are made in God's image?
- Then why should you treat strangers whom you do not know in ways you won't treat
your family?
- Why should a stranger respect your beliefs if your beliefs do not bless your
family?
- Is it easy to be respectful, kind, and loving?
- No! Being a godly person is not easy!
- Will being a godly person require that I make sacrifices? Yes!
- Will being a godly person in my family require sacrifices? Yes!
- Then why will I make such sacrifices?
- I do it for God in appreciation of what He has done and continues to do for me!
- I do it because it is an important part of who I am as a person who belongs to
God.
If you do not know how to be respectful, kind, and loving to your family, allow
someone who knows how to teach you (not judge and condemn you) how to show and
express positive qualities in your family relationships.
Learn how to be a respectful, kind, and loving person so your behavior
encourages others to show you kindness, respect, and love. Learn how to talk and
share. Let people learn from you that they matter.
Please, remember that sacrifice and love are inseparably linked as we devote
ourselves to godly living. Please, understand that respect, kindness, and love
are a part of being godly. Please, learn that showing these things to your
family is truly an important part of being godly. Sacrifice for these things
because these things are a part of God's ways. Never forget that God made great
sacrifices to extend you His respect, kindness, and love!
David Chadwell
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sermon posted 11 March 2008
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