ADOLESCENCE AND MIDDLESCENCE

Parents of teenagers face marital and family issues daily that are unique to this particular adult life stage. Teenagers desire freedom with increased privileges … but how many of these teens are willing to accept the responsibility that comes with it all? So, as a parent, how much freedom should we allow our teens?

Just as parents are dealing with the increasing independence of their teens, they are facing the increasing dependence of their parents. Mid-life parents truly are in the middle. Another issue often found on opposite ends of the spectrum deals with the fact that just as dads are ready and willing to turn back to their family, the teenagers are working toward more distance.

Then, to top it off … since the empty nest is not far away, feelings of anxiousness regarding the strength of the relationship with their spouse is a natural consequence. The fact is - parents of teens are also looking for ways to nurture their own marriages. The life stage of Adolescence and Middlescence have been studied extensively - but seldom together. Oddly enough, there are similar life issues between mid-life adults and adolescents which increase the pressure and complexity for parents of teens.

Last Sunday morning, I began a new Bible class called, "Growing Together with Your Teens: Studies for Parents of Teens." It’s not too late for you to take an active part in this class. The class format is discussion-driven which allows plenty of time for participation.

This study will help give a biblical perspective, and you will learn many practical ways to deal with various areas of family life.

There will be activities for class members to do alone, as couples, in small groups, and with the entire group together.

The rubber meets the road in this class as we nurture growth in our relationship with the Lord, each other, and our teens. It is my prayer that "Growing Together with Your Teens: Studies for Parents of Teens" will be a source of encouragement for West-Ark parents.

See you in Bible Class this week.

Ted Edwards

West-Ark Church of Christ, Fort Smith, AR
Bulletin Article, 14 March 1999


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